My Maid of honour is organising my hen, someone has let slip the plans one of the things I just can't do physically for reasons,the rest of the plans sound good but it's just not me...it's more things that they want to do I had been asked what I wanted to do and I thought spa day I don't drink so a night getting drunk doesn't interest me I just want a nice relaxing time with my girls before the excitement and madness of the wedding day...am I just being horrible thinking this? I've also seen the invites and there are people on there that I haven't even invited to the wedding as they are more their friend than mine( I know them enough to have a conversation when they have joined us at friends birthdays etc)
You should chose the guestlist 100%. If you've got issues with it say it sooner rather than later. If you can't bring yourself to do it then put on a smile anyway
Hi I don't think I will be having a hen do as my only bridesmaid will only 18 three months before the wedding :)
I'm not having a hen do as I couldn't be bothered with the politics and most people want to go out drinking and it isn't my thing either.
Not having a wild hen do, having closest girls going with me to a gig I really want to go to a couple of weeks before the wedding. Can't believe how rude they have been to invite people who aren't going to the wedding. It's not an excuse for them to have a party of their own!!!
I think that you MOH is not keeping in mind that is YOUR wedding and that the whole point of a hen do is for the bride to have fun/relax/enjoy with the company of her friends. I think you should have a chat with her I'm sure she won't be offended but it'll be a good wake up call for her. I hope this helps!
Definitely give a list to your MOH of who you want there, Its your day, not hers; a good friend will understand.
I would talk to your maid of honour and explain to her what you would like as its your hen do not hers x
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