There was a minor kick off at the hen party, between my matron of honour and soon to be sister in law. Although both have said it will be forgotten, I'm not so sure what once the sister in law is plied with the venomous alcohol as she is rather temperamental and volatile. They're on the same table for the wedding breakfast and no way we can separate them without doing the whole plan from scratch.
That sounds difficult - maybe make sure that they aren't sat next to each other or opposite each other? So if it's a table of 8, having like 2 people in between them, as it limits their chance to talk? Also very sternly telling them both that it's your wedding and you'll be very very annoyed if they argue and ruin your day! Good luck x
If I was you before the wedding get them both together, whether you go for lunch or a coffee somewhere, get them to sit and listen to you, I'd explain how you feel and you expect them to behave like adults and put their differences aside for 1 day, explain that alcohol is no excuse for them to act like animals and cause arguments on the day! Tell them their either civil or they don't bother showing x
I'd certainly not put them on the same table, you'll be watching them all day rejig your tables for your own peace of mind x
Warn them. Not to.kick.off. sit them.away from each other
Gag her
Take a water pistol,
Warn them not to spoil your day or you will be done with them both. Get them to sort themselves out asap
Put them either end so as much space as poss between
Let them both know that you have some concerns and that it is your wedding and you would like them to be civil on the day
Selfish women
Tell them.both to grow up and to be thinking about you not them
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