UKbride Member Request 2 Sep 2017

I'm getting married in 2019 and don't speak to my mother at all due to her...

I'm getting married in 2019 and don't speak to my mother at all due to her new husband who me and my h2b cant stand and my mams partner cant stand us, weve decided to invite my mother and my sister even though weve all fallen out and my mother has now turned my sister against me. Is it wrong that we refuse to invite my mothers husband due to us known we all don't like him and he doesn't like us and he will spoil our day?

Lisa Keenan
Lisa Keenan 2 Sep 2017

No, it's your day and you can invite whoever you want, you're entitled to leave people out who might make the day less enjoyable for you

Lucy Lewis
Lucy Lewis 2 Sep 2017

Hi I wouldn't invite any of them :)

Nicola Jones
Nicola Jones 2 Sep 2017

Completely agree with you - I wouldn't invite him either. You've been the bigger person and invited your mum and sister - above that there is nothing more you can do. Expect nothing and if you get something then that's a bonus. Best of luck xx

Louise Rayner
Louise Rayner 3 Sep 2017

Why invite anyone who could potentially ruin your day
Maybe if anything try and speak first if no joy, no invite. And enjoy your day with the people you know are happy for you. Good luck 😊

Emma Gibson
Emma Gibson 3 Sep 2017

I think your right not to invite him. You don't need the stress on your wedding day worrying whether he's going to try and ruin it x


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