for the brides with children.. where are you seating them during the...

We also have 3 under 6yrs ols. I'm spreading them out to sit with family they know well so it doesn't become a burden for anyone to look after 3 at once! Like they're hosting their own tables if you like....and we have a sweetheart table for 2.

mine will be 5yr - 2yr and 7month when we get married.. and most of our family already got 2 children of their own. are children allowed to sit at the top table?

mine - who will be 2&1/2 and 5, will be sat at the top table with us and both our parents

My youngest is 7 in november & eldest is 22 in june, were getting married next august...
Were not having a seating plan.. Having a relaxed chilled out hog roast & buffet..

Top table intbetween me and my then husband

I think it's personal preference there's no traditional answer as I suppose children came after marriage, we had parents siblings and our son on our top table but really it's where ever you wan them to be xx

We had our 3 children on the top table with us and my mum too.

We have 2 children, aged 6yrs and 4yrs both are sitting on the top table with us sitting at either side of us

Mine will be at the top table with me. They'll be 2 & 3

Mine will be sat with one of my bridesmaids as our sons are friends

Mine will be 15month, 5 and 8.
We're having a sweetheart table, just me and hubby then kids will be on another table with grandparents and aunties etc x

My daughter was on top table but my mum said to put her next to her so my dress didn't get spoilt my daughter was 2 at the time. My best friends daughter who was flower girl and 22 months was also on top table xx

We had round tables so kids and our parents sad with us

My son sat with us x

I had my two eldest on top table as one was my chief bridesmaid and the other gave me away. My 4 youngest sat right in front of us on the front row middle table with my sister and her family :)

Our daughter was 4 when we got married, we asked her who she wanted to sit next to and it was a family member she picked, we checked with them first that she would be able to sit next to them, instead of just landing them with her lol. X

I sat mine with their god-parents and three very close friends who kept them happy and entertained

We'll have an 8yr old and an 18 month old when we get married, sitting with us at the top table, guests children sitting with them x

We will have a 5 year old and a baby coming up 1 year old when we get married and are going to sit them at the top table with us xx

We had a child next to each of us and parents and bridal and groom party were on closest tables to the front

my son was 2 when i got married. And I say him with my parents and brothers. although he did end up sitting on my lap

im doin a mini top table in front of us with the flower girls on

My son is 10 and he sat in too table with us. You can put whoever you want on top table it's your wedding.

We have 1 son. He will be 7 almost 8. Hes sitting in the middle of us x

My son will be almost 4, and will sit on the top table with us.

I have 4 daughters and I'll be putting them on the top table with me and h2b.

We had our 5 year old daughter on the top table between my mum and dad but she ended up at the end of our table with her 5 year old best friend at the very end after we pulled up a chair hehe xx

Don't have children personally but ALL of the siblings and close cousins (7 sets in total) have children so we are planning on having a children's area and a children's entertainer.

I am having my three on top table as they are my world and my main family and they will be with me but everyone is different but it's not just you and your partner starting a life in my eyes it's a symbol where are family is all one x

We sat our 2 with their nan and grown up sister. Both were really well behaved x

I have twin boys and they are sitting either side of me and their daddy on the top table

Our little girl was on the top table.

I sat my boys separate..... my eldest with my family and my youngest with my husbands family but I wasn't having them at the top table they were only 6mnths old and 5 years old I didn't want them to carry on and misbehave hence the reason to separate them

I'm having my two on the top table. TBH I don't really care whether it's tradition or whether I should.....they are my babies, my world! It's your wedding.....do whatever makes you feel comfortable x

Ours is going to be relaxed seating so I'm going to have a "kids table" with crayons etc.... there's going to be 15 kids so will need something to entertain them

I have 3 who will be 7, 5 and 3 when I get married and we've decided to seat the children with family, we are going to seat them on the tables closest to the top table so we can see them and they can see us. X

We have 3 children and did a 'T' shaped table so parents and bride and groom only were across the top and children and bridesmaid best man etc were on the other worked really well x

Mine were 7 and 10 when I got married we had them at the top table just me my husband and the kids xx

We're having top table me, husbands, 3 best men and 3 bridesmaids. Our nearly 5 year old will be sat on a different table with her nan and grandads and auntie!

I'm having a kids table. They'll enjoy that more

Ur wedding is about u! Stop following all the old traditions and do what u want to do. Sit them where u want them not where every1 else wants them.

My 2 sons will be 12 and 7, they are sitting on the nearest table to the top table with their Auntie who is a bridesmaid xx

Our little boy wasn't even 6 months when we got married but he was put with my husbands step mum as we didn't have step parents on the top table. She was sat near enough opposite us so we could see him xx

I'm having my son and daughter at the top table ..they are 13 and 11

We had ours on the top table instead of best man etc

I had my 3 & nieces and nephews on there own table loads of activities I spy disposable cameras they loved it. They were on a middle table so lots of adults family etc to help them if needed xx

Ask them??? I have a 4 year old and she wanted to sit with her older cousins rather than with me and her father. It was easier her doing what she wanted. X

We have 5 children and we are having them on the other side of our top table so they are opposite us love the idea they are on top table with us xxx

My little girls will be 2 and 5 when I get married in March and they are going to be on the top table xx

Outta entirely up to you but the general thing is, if they ate pay off the wedding party I.e. follower girls, page boys etc, them at the top table. If not, then with close family such as a grandparent. Remember, It's your day and you don't have to follow the norm. X