Anyone else panicking that the people you want to invite including family...

I'm beginning to hope they don't.

There's only so much you can do. If people don't come then that is their choice ultimately. My dad was insistent we invited his sister, my aunt. and in the end she has decided not to come. Hes upset but it is her choice and at least we extended the invite. Why not send STDs so that they can plan for the date in advance

no if they decide not to come its there loss at the end of the day unless they have a genuine reason not too

I had a minor moment of panic when we were choosing the venue and the date, but then my fiancé reminded me that at the end of the day it's about us, not about accommodating others. If they choose not to come then that's their loss :-)

I'm kinda hoping a few don't come lol but I've pretty much seen most of my family since I sent my save the dates out and no one has said they can't make it yet.

Yes, I've over invited for the evening, and catered for 30 less. It's the day invites I panicked about. Firstly due to money, at the price per head. I told my H2B I'll bill anyone who doesn't turn up 😂

Ive got a table of 10 that i only want 3 there, it makes arguments when you don't invite certain people, especially when the other 7 i haven't see for over 10years !!!
Keeping my dads life easy by having them there.