I am getting married in four weeks time and I am so stressful as my future mother in law is creating lot of troubles and changing plans and making me adjust with that plans. We went and finalised with flowers things and she is not liking and want to change everything I am liking in flower arrangement and want my family hairstylist to be changed and saying us to adjust with some hairstylist she want .I dont understand with her as after all fixed . I am getting too stressed and not able to control this at this moment and I am down.I was happy to involve her in planning but I didnt taught this will happened. My bridemaids are my sisters and they purchased their dress and they not happy with that . Now I am panicing things happening like this and how to control this things happening at last moment and hadle this stress . As day is approaching near by I feel so stressful too and how I manage with this.I love the man I am getting married as he is good guy and its not fair ,I am troubling him with this stress too. Is any one going through this situation and how to trackle this .
CommentAuthorStaceyH989
Oh Asha, I'm so sorry that you have all this stress on you hun, especially when you should be starting to get really excited. I think you and your H2B need to sit down with his mum and explain that although you really appreciate all her help she needs to take a step back as the day is about you two as a couple and it isn't her day.
As for your bridesmaids if the choose and paid for the dresses they really can't complain they don't like them anymore. If they really want to change them give them a deadline that it has to be done by and explain to them once they have changed them that's it.
You will pull through this hun, we are all here to support you if you need it :) xx
