I'm just asking you lot to a) see if anyone has felt the same and b) check I'm not going mad!
I'm 10 days away from the big day and I am really, really emotional. I keep crying and I rang my mum last night to get her to reassure me that she won't treat me any differently once I'm married, stuff like that.
A I am a bit stressed getting the last bits done, and it's not that I don't want to get married cause I am sooooo pumped for it, but it's properly starting to feel real now and a bit overwhelming. I have a tendency to overthink and I don't know if it's that or if I don't want this to all be over, not sure.
Has anyone found the same? xxxx
CommentAuthorEmily17
It is such a massive step in life and an emotional one that its not really a surprise to me that you are like this.
Personally I think its harder for myself than OH because I am changing my name and my family have already said to me that I wont be a v*** anymore after the wedding and that i'll need to remove myself from the family wh@t5 @pp group. They are joking and I bat it off but It does feel that way a little. Maybe its something like that why you needed reassurance from your mom?
We spend such a long time planning it that it becomes a part of our daily life. Even if nothing proactive is done, every day I am thinking about the wedding and we still have another 435 days left to go. Its no wonder that you don't want it to end but just need to keep yourself busy afterwards. Writing thank you notes. Plan a holiday. Organise a big Christmas get together...
Take care xxxx
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CommentAuthorStephanieM158
Oh blooming heck lol. Im 6 weeks off and im on a real emotional trip at the moment. Goodness lnows what ill be like with only 10 days to go. Im actually at a point where im just looking forward to being married not the actual day.
I think its nerves mixed with stress. Youve spent so long preparing for it and now its just round the corner. Actuallyi would find you loopy if you werent emotional. :-) youll be fine hun. Xxx
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Engaged 2014
Getting Married 2016
CommentAuthorNicoleW665
oh it's probably nerves and excitement knocking you all out of wack! it will settle for sure try not to worry and just take it one day at a time x
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CommentAuthorLeanneR0186
Aw I suspect this is all really normal huni. I think I will be the exact same. Hope you have an amazing wedding day. Lots of love xxx
arr bless you thats so sweet! Im sure its normal, i wouldnt worry! things will probably be exactly the same with your family and hubby after you get married. its a huge step in life, one hopefully we will all only make once, so im not suprised your emotional. I hope you have a fantastic wedding day <3 x
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CommentAuthorLouiseyweesey
Bless you thank you ladies. I'm still a bit wobbly at times but so excited at least, back at Mum's till the wedding now so lots to keep me busy lol xxxx
CommentAuthorStephanieM158
How are you Louise?? Not long now.x
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Engaged 2014
Getting Married 2016
CommentAuthorLouiseyweesey
4 days!!!! Aaaaahhhhhhh! I'm ok thanks. Better now I'm at my mum and dad's. Had some really good time with them both so I'll try and come down for a few days after honeymoon before going back to work (I'm a teacher) - they've been very reassuring that they won't be any different and I'm always going to be their daughter!!!! xxxx
CommentAuthorStephanieM158
Fab, so glad to hear it. Not long now so ill wish you the best of luck now for your big day. Hope its all you dreamed it would be and more. Xxx