Not sure what to say except that i am devestated. She is jealous and horrible and the man i love choose her over our wedding. I will never forgive her for the things she said and i know that we will now never have our happy ending.
She is all we talk and fight about.
I dont wont to loose him but nothing ever will be the same as he made his decision very clear: im his number ... Something
CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
Oh no Carrie. I am so sorry. Is there nothing that will change his mind? Sending big hugs xx
Became Mrs Wade 06/08/2016
CommentAuthorFayeJ67
I'm so sorry for you!
Obviously I don't know the full story behind this but if he is not prepared to put you first then he is not the one and better to find out now than after the wedding.
Hopefully you can move on and find some one better
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Oh no, I'm sorry to read of this, I seriously hope you manage to work things out
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
Oh no, so sorry hun
Families can be awful :( but I would question whether he cares for you as much as you do him if he doesn't put you first. I hope you can work things out
Oh no - seems like sisters are their to ruin families! OH and I just had big row over his sister-
Don't know your story but hope you can work it out!
With my OHs sister I can tolerate her to a certain point but then I snap!
CommentAuthorTheNewMrsBarrett
Oh I'm so sorry to hear this, hope you can work things out hon xx
CommentAuthorEmmilou82
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I'm sorry to hear this....if he cannot put you first he's not worth the grief!!
I know families are extremely important but so are you and he should know that.
I'm so sorryy Hun xxx
Marrying 'The One' on 30th July 2016
I am now Mrs Emma Stokoe xx
CommentAuthorKjs2016
oh gosh, so sorry to hear this :-( Hope you are bearing up.
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Oh no, so sorry to hear this!
Every woman deserves to be no.1 to the one she marries.
Hope everything works out x
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorStephH96
This is so sad, I hope you can work something out xxx
CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
O no :( I'm not sure about the whole story but have you tried talking to him and making sure he's not just getting nerves and picked her because of them? X
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
Sorry to read this. I would give it a few days before making any final decision. It may be that your OH needs time away from both you and his sister to work out how he really feels.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
CommentAuthorEmily17
So sorry to hear this. Hope you are ok.
Leave it a couple of days and try to speak to him again it may have been in the heat of the moment. Yes she is family but you are also his family. his new family. Take care x
Met in 2009
He proposed Jan 2014
Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
CommentAuthorKatieH
So sorry to hear this. Hope you are ok and you can work things out. He may just need to cool off for a bit xx
Met in 2007
Started dating in 2009
Got engaged in 2014
Became Mrs Holme 11.06.16
CommentAuthorBaker2Be
o no! maybe when tempers cool it is something you can sit and talk about x
3rd January 2015 I said yes to being your wife
10th September 2016 we will make it official
CommentAuthorMagpieBride
Oh, hun, that's so sad. Many (((hugs))). Can't imagine what you must be going through. :(
Maybe give it a couple days, then have a talk (on neutral ground, like in a coffee shop or something); perhaps you guys can work something out, or if not then you can at least move on a bit easier.
CommentAuthorprincesspixie
Oh no thats awful hope you're ok and manage to solve something xx
Officially married my best friend 2/5/2015 (secretly)
Big wedding 18/06/2016
CommentAuthorVelcro
families can be awful. He should be putting you first. He doesn't sound like he deserves you tbh. I have nightmare inlaws and they are livid he has ''chosen'' me over them.
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*Kelbel* is my wedding twinny!
CommentAuthorVikkiH53
Oh no, that's terrible. So sorry to hear that. I agree with others, may be wait a few days and then talk to him. The sister shouldn't make him choose but at the same time you are his family now, his new family.
Really hope you can sort it out
CommentAuthorSofia7
This is heartbreaking...
This actually happened to my Dad where his brother's wife made him choose between her or my Dad and he chose her so I've never met my Uncle and my Dad doesn't see his brother anymore...
In my personal opinion, I always dismiss whoever is making me choose... whether they are family or not.
I honestly think if the family is being complicated, it's not a good thing to marry into at all. I'm sorry you're going through this and hope you look at the bigger picture. <3
-Sofia
CommentAuthorCeltic_Queen
Oh my gosh I am so sorry! It is heartbreaking, you must be going through so many emotions right now.