Hi everyone this is just a post out of curiosity. I'm in n.ireland and the tradition here is a full wedding breakfast but I've heard of people in other parts of the uk having afternoon tea, buffets etc. what is everyone having? For ours we will be having vegetable soup followed by chicken & ham vol u vent. Then a choice of Turkey & ham or roast beef with all the trimmings. Then a choice of hot chocolate pudding with ice cream or trifle with tea or coffee. For our evening buffet we are having sausage baps, bacon baps and chips and tea or coffee and wedding cake. I don't think anyone will go hungry!! Lol
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorGemmaS8204
Hi Danielle, we're having a choice of 3 starters, mains and deserts in the day so people can choose on the day then hog roast for evening buffet... I think dependant on theme or if you're not a 3 course meal person something else would be better for you but I like a good 3 course meal haha xx
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Hi Gemma I love the sound of the hog roast!! Great idea. Yes I do like a sit down meal too but it's so expensive. I love the idea of people having afternoon tea etc it sounds great. But then I'm Assuming their day would start later? My service is at 1pm and I'd prefer it earlier to get as long out if the day as possible as I'm Sure it will just fly by!!x
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Were are having a sit down meal add don't fancy idea of people walking around with plates, or guests are having a choice of 3 starters, and 4 mains. And cake for desert.
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CommentAuthorAprilS61
We have a 3 course meal and a buffet for the reception with cake cut then also. We didn't get a choice of dishes so its the same for everyone and it hasn't been a problem for us, nobody's complained.
We had a three course breakfast but the main was a 'posh' Buffett,
I think today, it's not more about tradition, but more what the couple want.
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CommentAuthorFlossie
We are having a sit down three course wedding breakfast and then a buffet in the evening.
I think the menus are likely to change by the time our wedding comes around as our venue is heavily improving their cooking at the moment and are looking for a rosette chef etc etc... But we had decided on risotto, a chicken dish and then a trio of deserts as we thought that would be the safest option to suit everyone. Not looking into it too much at the mo though as I think the menu will definitely change.
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CommentAuthorEmmaG
We having canapes at 1pm, 2pm Sit down High Tea - sandwiches, scones, cakes with pink cava with speeches e.t.c , then we having a hog roast starting from 6.30pm, with the non day guests coming from 5pm so they can do some of the afternoon games and have a drink before the hog roast is ready . we having loads of potato salads and couscous too with it e.t.c. :)
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CommentAuthorKirstyR386
We're having a 3 course meal with a choice of 2 dishes for each course so everyone will be picking what they want from our chosen menu when they reply to the invites. A friend is having afternoon tea at her wedding although we are just going to the evening so not totally sure how it will work but who doesnt love a good scone with jam and cream! I've also heard of people doing fish and chip vans. X
CommentAuthorVickiD69
We're having a sit down 3 course meal.
Choice of either leek and potato soup or Trio of melon
Roast beef, or goats cheese tartlet for vegetarians (they chose)
And Trio of mini desserts, chocolate Brownie, citrus cheesecake and strawberry pavlova
CommentAuthorGemmaS8204
3 course meals can be so expensive I look at quite a few places and our was the cheapest but with just as nice and quality food, with a choice so really for me if was a no brainer I think EmmaG 's idea is good having canapés, afternoon tea then buffet earlier and it's still early in the day. I think it's all personal choice but I do like how you can have so many different choices now a days x
CommentAuthorAmyM8
We're having a 3 course sit down meal.
Choice of chicken liver terrine or smoked salmon for starters.
Chicken and asparagus or pork and apple for mains.
And a Chou pastry swan in a chocolate 'loch' for afters.
Tea and coffee served with tablet too.
We've got an evening buffet too but as we're not having any additional guests in the evening it's just sandwiches and sausage rolls.
CommentAuthorDanielleMystic
i love the idea of a sit down meal but for the evening I'd love a hog roast and stations for hotdogs, doughnuts, candy floss ^_^ we might be having a sort of fairground theme so think it'd work fab and we're already doing a sweet buffet x
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CommentAuthorElinor Claire
We had a full wedding breakfast for full-day guests. Starter was a goat's cheese and onion tartlet, main course was duck, and the pudding was a chocolate marquiss. We also had unlimited red and white wine, and tea or coffee with small welsh cakes. For the evening do we had a buffet.
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CommentAuthorsALLY
We will be having a chicken dinner followed by cup cakes then in the evening bacon butties n hash browns followed by cake and sweets in the tables... My favours are also edible if anyone gets peckish
CommentAuthorRebeccaH100
We are doing a passed canapés first: Smoked salmon and cream cheese on mini bagels Parmesan Risotto Balls Seared Wasabi beef with ginger on watermelon cubes Smoked Salmon Mini Quails Egg Royale- brioche, smoked salmon, quails eggs, and hollandaise
We are doing a 2 course sit down (the dessert broke our budget unfortunately but we're going to use our cake as the dessert course!)
Starter: Fresh fig, caramelised red onion and goats cheese tartin, petit herbb & leaf salad, balsamic caramel
Main: Corn fed chicken stuffed with chestnut mushrooms, ricotta cheese and roasted garlic, white and wild rice pilaf, asparagus, creamy sage sauce
Followed by tea, coffee, and chocolate truffles
Followed by cake (yum!!!)
For the evening we are doing passed food: Bacon butties Fish and Chips in paper cones
We are also going to have a Dessert and Crisps Table: Bags of English crisps (for the Americans coming) Cake pops Biscuits Cupcakes
Phew… Somehow I was worried before we didn't have enough food.. I don't think that is the case!
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CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
Ceremony is at 3pm
Afterwards during photographs/cocktail hour we're dishing out the "starter" which is various canapes
Meal will be a Sunday carvery with all the trimmings
Dessert will be available during the evening reception as a small sweet buffet with a chocolate fountain and also some savoury options for evenings guests
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CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Everything sounds great!! I love the sound of the canapés but budget just won't strech that far!! Usually when we go to a wedding we go get something small to eat after the church before going to the hotel to keep us going until dinner! I had initially thought of just having soup as a starter to keep costs down but our hotel is 5 course or nothing!! Although the it was originally supposed to be choice of starters also and I got them to agree to one starter (vol u vent) to keep costs down a little. Surprisingly for our buffet it was the same price to go with the butties and chips as having sandwiches sausage rolls etc. we are also having a candy cart and will be putting little bags on the place setting saying fill me up at the candy cart so will double up as favours!
21st May 2016 xxx
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
What is everyone doing drinks wise? We will be giving a class of champagne on arrival, a glass of champagne for the toast and a glass of wine with dinner. Does this sound ok?
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CommentAuthorDonnaH39
We're having the 3 course meal followed by a buffet in the evening.
Glass of bucks fizz on arrival, wine with dinner and then some sparkling wine for toasts.
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
We're also having canape's on arrival
CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
We're using a local supplier through our venue called Cairn'o'Mohr who will supply a non alcoholic drink during canapes/cocktail hour.
Then from the same supplier wine/cider and fruit juice on the tables during meal.
Evening. Guests buy their own.
We're buying the drinks on a buy and return bases so whatever we don't use will be refunded to us.
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CommentAuthorFlossie
We are doing arrival drinks.. Buck's Fizz, pimms or orange juice for those who don't want alcohol. We are putting a few bottles of red and white wine on each table and one glass of bubbly each for the toast. Will also put jugs of water on the tables.
Everyone will be buying their own drinks from then on including the reception, or if they want anything else i.e coke.
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CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
We are getting everybody welcome drinks which will be bucks fizz and orange juice for children and those hat don't want alcohol. Then as we are having an evening only wedding everybody will be buying their own drinks during the night x
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CommentAuthorRebeccaH100
We are doing cava during canapés, and then white/red on the tables, and cava for toasts. We're going to do an open bar for the evening, but we're limiting to wine, beer, cava, vodka drinks, rum drinks, and our special cocktail which is a mojito. So many people coming from the states, I just felt we couldn't ask them to buy drinks.
That said, its one of the things we've not paid for yet so we can always change to cash bar if the budget gets too tight come May
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
We had a selection of Chinese style/oriental style canapés with the welcome drinks.
Course wedding breakfast: Lobster bisque for starters, veggie option starter which was some veggie terrine Chicken stuffed with mushroom mousse and saffron sauce, veggie option main also offered Chocolate mousse dessert for everyone
My dad and I had a different main though because I wanted pork wellington and my dad preferred it too, we also had a pear frangipane tart for dessert, again just because I preferred it. Brides prerogative lol.
Evening buffet was hog roast with so many sides, I didn't have any of it because I just couldn't eat much all day. Our wedding cake was also served during the evening buffet.
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CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Lovely reading everyone's replies. Seems the majority is having sit down meals and the usual wine etc for dinner. My guests will also be buying their own drinks at night!
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CommentAuthorSydnieH
We're having a bbq :) And then for the evening were having a buffet
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
We are having for day guests starters Welsh ham hock rillette with piccalilli, sour dough toast Pea and watercress soup with savoury herb éclairs (v) Smoked trout with cucumber dill salad Main meal Roast chicken breast with apricot and watercress stuffing Haddock with Welsh wholegrain mustard lemon and crème fraiche Twice baked Pwll Mawr cheddar cheese soufflé (v) Then to finish Belgian waffle with our own bespoke bara brith ice cream Iced nougat and Brecon Honey parfait with seasonal berries Chocolate marquise
In the evening we didn't want a huge buffet as didn't see the point as we are eating late afternoon and guests will most prob be looking for snack stuff so we are doing bacon rolls and hot dogs and maybe some chips lol
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CommentAuthorSarah D
Hello all
Starting with various canapés and prosecco
Then having a 3 course sit down meal, haven't narrowed down my selection yet, the menu selectors I was given by the venue are great but we get to make 2 choices and a vegetarian choice and there are 6 options on each course, going to be hard to narrow it down!
Our evening buffet is going to be traditional - Scottish Stovies and Oatcakes and wedding cake!
Once we narrow it down we will be going to try the whole menu we pick! and I am looking forward to that xx
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CommentAuthorTammyC11
Hi :)
We have gone for a 3 course meal of: Starters: scallops on a bed of cauliflower puree with pancetta or Goats Cheese & Red Pepper Mille Feuille, Balsamic Glaze.
Main: Individual Beef Wellingtons with green beans and potato gratin or spinach & Butternut Squash Risotto with Rocket and Root Vegetable Crisps.
I think we are having canapés for guests when they arrive and then a big buffet at night along with the wedding cake. We don't want a sit down meal so just going have nibbles on the table too x
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CommentAuthorsALLY
Doing that too Danielles0709 as lot of my family are children or non drinkers so just thought everyone can buy their own drinks, not always do people like wine anyway
CommentAuthorSarah D
We have prosecco to toast the bride and 2 bottles of wine on each table, but then the rest of the night the guests will buy there own drinks. x
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CommentAuthorbeximo86
We are getting married at 3pm and after a lot of umming and ahhhing we are having a BBQ for the 'day' guests and then a small buffet in the evening.
People will be offered a bottle of Budwe1ser, a glass of pure orange or a glass of champagne on arrival, and a glass of champers for the toast. We are also providing wine on the tables but are currently looking in to corkage costs as our alcohol package was somewhat extortionate!
Although I enjoy having a nice sit down meal on occasion, we are just not that kind of couple and really want a relaxed day. I hate feeling rushed and stressing so looking forward to a fairly relaxed day (hopefully!!) x
CommentAuthorAH86
We're having: Starter: prawn cocktail or leek and potato soup Main: choice of about 6 pies served with mash, mushy pies and gravy Dessert: bake well tart or Eton mess Cheese board Coffee and mints
Evening we have mini hot dogs, mini burgers and salad with a cheese cake and biscuits and our cake will also be served!
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CommentAuthorDonnaH39
If we were going to pay for bottles of wine instead of per glass, how many bottles do you think we'd need for a table of 8?
Trying to work out what will work out better for us money wise.
Also do most venues offer a buy back drinks service, as we wouldn't know how many people were drinking what?
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Ooooh a bbq sounds like a lot of fun!! Beximo86 I love the idea of bottle of bud! We are also going to buy our own wine/champers and pay for corkage as it works out a lot more although the I'd say we will end up with a lot of left over wine. Donna I'm not sure about hotels doing a buy back service. I don't think ours does anyway as the wine they supply is a lot more expensive than the wine we will be buying! Also u usually get 4 glasses of wine from a bottle not very big glasses though so it depends if you want to do one glass or two. I personally think its better to get the waiting staff to pour the wine instead of leaving on tables that way it's fair that everyone gets the same amount but that's just my personal choice. X
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CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
we are having a 3 course meal, we have to narrow it down to one selection for each course(except for vegetarians) as its too expensive to offer guest a choice. ours is:
Starter: Vegetable soup with herb croutons or cheese and onion tart with tomato chutney
Main: Fillet of salmon with a prawn and chive cream sauce or Roast chicken with a bacon and rosemary sauce and stuffing or puff pastry parcel filled with cherry tomato, broccoli and mozzarella
Dessert: Baked lemon cheesecake or cream filled profiteroles with a duo of chocolate and toffee sauce.
we also have a buffet for evening guests
CommentAuthorTeresa
Hi all,
We are have in. A 3 course meal
Starters choice of :- melon or prawn cocktail Main choice of:- roast beef/ chicken with mozzarella and Parma ham and a veggie option of stuffed red pepper with lemon cous cous Children can have chicken nuggets and chips if they wish Dessert choice of:- lemon and lime posset/ chocolate brownie with chocolate sauce and mint chocolate chip ice cream/ or just ice cream.
We are having a buffet in the evening and having our wedding cake served with it, our wedding cake is going to consist of 5 different flavours:- fruit cake, Victoria sponge,chocolate cake( maybe chocolate fudge) white chocolate and raspberry and a citrus sponge maybe lemon. I'm making the wedding cake so I'm being outrageous and having 5 tiers :)
For the drinks we are having arrival drinks of wine/ fresh orange juice Bottles on the table of red/ rose/ white for during the meal And. A toast drink of sparkling wine.
We are also having a sweet buffet but not sure when to open that, it will deffo be after the. Meal though, so the children don't ruin their appetite.
CommentAuthorDanielleS0709
Oh yum I'm getting hungry it all sounds lovely. Teresa you should do what I'm doing with regards to the candy cart. I'm leaving little bags in each place setting saying fill me up at the candy cart so it doubles up as favours! We will be having ours after dinner so everyone can go get their sweeties whilst waiting for band to set up. However my sister got married a few years ago and had her candy cart on arrival which was nice also as it can be a long wait until dinner
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CommentAuthorTeresa
That's a really good idea, if only I had thought about this before, I have just designed and as we speak are getting the favour boxes printed, mind you it's mainly to make the table look pretty than to want to give favours lol!
Think I may do it as the evening guests arrive as it means they can have some too! Of decisions decisions, it's crazy everything has to be thought out to the most tiniest detail doesn't it.