Me and my husband got married quickly in April this year as we were moving abroad... we have 2 children and it helped with the legalities/security of our family while we were away. the problem is that we only had 7 weeks to plan, on a budget we didn't really have the choice of much as they were favours more than anything, his dad missed the ceremony due to a delayed flight, we couldn't invite most of our family and friends and his brother and nieces (who were meant to be my bridesmaids) couldn't get to the UK on such short notice. Everything was rushed! It was an incredible day but we both always had this idea of a wedding that didn't pan out and there are some regrets there! We were thinking about having a renewal of vows but big wedding style, with the dress I wanted (but couldn't get in time) my bridesmaids and our families and friends having plenty of notice!! Is this wrong? Do you think this would be ok and people would understand or are we bring greedy wanting our 'real dream wedding' to happen??
CommentAuthorAprilS61
Of course people would understand! I would anyway, I would want to do it too. You have the wedding you want :) x
Mr & Mrs Swan 04/04/15
CommentAuthorBecky1608
Go for it!!!! You should definitely get to have your dream day xxx
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04/11/2012 - A proposal in Central Park NYC
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CommentAuthorMrsHartley2b
I think thats a fab idea. Either that or you could have a blessing. I think your family would love it. And then nobody has really missed out on your special day.
Soon to be Mrs Hartley 8th August 2015!
officially got together 15th January 2012
had our daughter June 2013
engaged June 2014
CommentAuthorElinor Claire
You should definitely do a blessing or renewal of vows. The great thing is that because the legal stuff is taken care of you can do it how you want, without needing to satisfy any legal requirements.
30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.
where are you moving to and when ...... could you have your 2nd ceremony there ( after all you dont need any legal bit ) be a bit a of an official start to your lives abroad and everyone could make it part of a holiday
Yes go for it, there is absolutely no reason why you shouldn't! Everyone should be able to have their dream day. It's important that you have no regrets xx
