Hi everyone,I'm really starting to get nervous about the big day,and actually quite scared! I saw a bride and groom in a horse and carriage yesterday and it got me thinking about my day and I actually felt physically sick.I'm so excited about the day but also scared,nervous etc I can't put my finger on what I'm most worried about other than walking down the aisle and everyone looking at me,the thought terrifies me (although we only have close family and friends attending ceremony so I shouldn't be worrying) I think at this rate I'm going to give myself a heart attack or nervous breakdown.I'm also worrying that I'm not going to be able to get to the actual ceremony because I will be either being sick or nearly passing out.lol.is anyone else getting really anxious as the day is getting closer? X
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CommentAuthorPrincess2be
im not feeling too bad, im just excited for mine at the moment. you still have six months to go hun, try to figure out whats worrying you about it, are you self consious bout walking down the ailse when you say you dont want people looking at you? xx
CommentAuthorSamanthaA83
Lol I think I am a bit, I've never liked to be the centre of attention and I'm worrying that if I start crying (which I probably will) then everyone will see me blubbering lol,and also that h2b May not like my dress (although he has said he thinks I will look beautiful whatever I'm wearing), nothing else about the day makes me nervous I'm just excited and looking forwards to the rest of it it's just the actual walking in.I think I'm making myself worry over nothing x
05-12-2004 My big girl was born <3
30-09-2009 My lil man was born <3
23-03-2012 My baby boy was born <3
26-04-2014 I marry the man of my dreams <3
CommentAuthorBev
I know what you mean! Mines a year away and I already can't wait to get through the ceremony so I can relax. For me, it's speaking in front of everyone (which is really silly because they're all close family) but I'm worried I'll start crying and not be able to get my words out! I'm planning on using kalms to help me through if I need to x
CommentAuthorLauraM9144
think its normal samantha :) i get waves of excitement then sheer panic! what if i look ridiculous what if people laugh what if i trip all those things go round my head (what if i cry doesnt because i am emotionally unbalanced and EVERYTHING makes me cry so thats just something everyone knows and i have accepted my mum gave me a loely little hankie as a gift that matches my dress so thats covered) but im sure it will be all fine and i guess these feelings just show how much the day means to us so it can only be a good thing. just give yourself time in the morning to make sure youa re calm and things can run smoothly good planning and use your bridal party to take pressure of you! :) exciting time ahead
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I think it's normal, I'm having little waves of it too. I am really excited, but now and then I get a little lurch in my stomach. No idea what I'm nervous about as I'm certain its what I want. I think it might be because it is such an important part of my life about to happen. X
CommentAuthorBeckyU98
i wouldnt say that im getting very anxious but the dreams/nightmares are certainly creeping back in again with just under 6 months to go. i think im excited more than anything, but making sure im really organised as the only thing im likely to get anxious over is making sure everything is done in time and goes to plan x
CommentAuthorKistHall
Panic, terror, nausea... Yeah I think that's all pretty normal when confronted with the idea of being the centre of attention, having people watch you walk down the aisle, dancing in front of people, wearing a giant white dress and make up in public and of course wearing heels and walking in them!
CommentAuthornatalie2614
Its all pretty normal, and you'll get like this right up to the day. On the day, I felt fine until I got to the top of the aisle and said to hubby, i think im gonna be sick! lovely words to say to the man i was about to marry!
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CommentAuthorSamanthaA83
Haha Natalie that made me laugh!! Yeah some llama for the day definitely a great idea.I'm so glad I'm not the only one.Laura I'm an emotional wreck at times lol,I used to be fine and never used to cry over things I saw on tv etc but since having the kids I cry at everything,lol,me and my mum went into a card shop last week and we were reading the verses in the wedding cards and we had to leave because we were both nrly crying so dread to think how we will be on the day especially when I see my mum crying Lmao x
05-12-2004 My big girl was born <3
30-09-2009 My lil man was born <3
23-03-2012 My baby boy was born <3
26-04-2014 I marry the man of my dreams <3
CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
I'm at the excited stage at the moment and can't wait. I also can't believe how quick this year is going! As of we are in October already!! We have our first venue meeting in a few weeks so I suspect that is when I will start to feel a little nervous.
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Engaged: 26th September 2012
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CommentAuthorFernP61
I had a bit of a panic situation four weeks ago but I'm fine now it's going quick this week is xx
