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    • InDreamland
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    As it says in the title, when you sign the register, do you sign using your old maiden name signature or with a new married name signature?

    I'm not sure I'm ready to sign my name in my married name, simply because I've not even started trying out different signatures or practising!
    Help!

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    • Mrs Cartwright
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    You will need to sign in your maiden name x
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    • InDreamland
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    Ah brilliant thank you, feel better about that now, means I have more time to think about that one!

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    • Mrs Cartwright
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    You're welcome. Glad i could help :)
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    • MrsA-J
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    good question indreamland!!!
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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    Ohh so you sign in your maiden name I thought it would be in your new signature as a Mrs I already know mine InDreamland been practicing it before H2B even asked me to marry him You need to start scribbling down on paper what you like make it similar to your old signature or totally different up to you =D ♥ X

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    • InDreamland
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    Thanks ladies, someone on the May 2013 thread mentioned signature and I suddenly panicked and realised I just haven't got a new signature and only have 11 days to the wedding! Then thought what if I have to have a new signature and put on the spot then scribbled some rubbish!

    Ol MrsDeaton2b, that's so cute! I dare not do it just in case h2b didn't propose then after he did just been so busy with other things just not thought about a new signature x

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    • Finally Susan B
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    Brilliant question - hadn't thought about it before and would've been in a tizz as I sat to do it :-)
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    • Little Kettle
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    First time I did my signature as a Mrs was when I went to the bank to change my name - 12 days after our wedding LOL! I never practised. I think I'm a bit weird.
    But yes, to confirm, you do sign in your maiden name x

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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    In my head H2B was going to propose to me didn't know when or how I just knew in my Heart of Hearts that Chris would propose to me and I would be his wife one day As we are soul mates and he is my partner for life I have perfected my signature its a little like my original signature =D ♥ X

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    • InDreamland
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    Hehehe, Almost Mrs B, that would make 2 of us!

    Lol Heather, I reckon I'll be the same, thinking though I should now start to think about it xx

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    • Little Kettle
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    Nah, just wing it ;)

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    • InDreamland
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    Lana that is sooooo cute!

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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    I know Tracey I'm terrible At Uni on all my lecture notes I put my new Married name on my notes and have to remember on actual assignments to put my maiden name I have almost put Deaton as my surname instead of Smith I write it to much =D ♥ X

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    • InDreamland
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    Lol Heather, not sure I'm brave enough to do it, took me years to perfect my current signature xxx

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    • InDreamland
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    Lana!

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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    I remind myself of Fiona form Shrek in Shrek 2 when in her diary all it says is Mrs Fiona Charming Mrs Fiona Charming etc... Instead Im Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton over 1000 x probably =D ♥ X

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    • InDreamland
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    Lol xx

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    • Llosa
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    yes brill question, i had no clue hehe....
    And i refuse to practise my new signature as its bad luck....if you believe that sort of thing :)
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    • Finally Susan B
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    h2b and I have lived together over 30 years and I've never once practiced signing with his name. In fact it's actually something I think will feel so weird, using a different name after all these years.
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    • disneylove
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    What a great question never thought about it til now lol

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    • sarah
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    raycheroo - that's what I thought too. No practicing beforehand for me




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    • Glitterfairy
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    They will tell you before you sign it anyway that you need to do it in your maiden name.

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    • Mel D
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    My signature was illegible as my maiden name so I haven't changed it, unless I have to initial something then I just so a sqiggly line like waves as my initials are now mn!

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    • *KelBel*
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    This is a good question, I'd never thought about that!

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    • CommentAuthorJoannaS
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    i didn't practice my new signature at all and I only use the last part fo his surname for signing as he has a double barrelled name I haven't changed any details with the bank or credit card company so have to remember which name to sign at the moment lol. Had my other married name for nearly 30 years so I have to think when I sign now lol
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    • Glitterfairy
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    They will also ask you how you will be signing it, like what initials will you use. I used to use both my name and middle name initial and last name in my old signature.

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    • Lulu1388
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    oh thanks for asking this IDL... complete mind blank over this! phew! x

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    • MrsWright290912
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    Sign in your maiden name.

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    • MrsH-2B
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    I thought you signed both names.. Was looking forward to signing my new name :-( My new signature is ten times better than my actual signature lol.. xxx

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    • Elinor Claire
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    I've got my new signature sussed already.

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    • MrsMoran
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    You sign your maiden name. I've been married before and had to sign my maiden name and they write next to it what you have written i.e. if you sign with initial of your first name, initial of your middle name and then maiden surname, they will write exactly what you have signed. xxx




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    • natalie2614
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    Maiden name - and they remind you right before you sign anyway. Apparently you're not married until its signed. My first new signature was 8 days after we married and that was my bank :) xx

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    • Rennie1989
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    I'm glad I saw this, I've been subtly worrying about it since I gave Notice. Thanks for the clarity guys!
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    • JennyHeather
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    I was practising mine after reading this thread, oh my god how hard is it? I can't scribble like I used to with my maiden name lol!

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    • MrsC
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    • MrsThomson2B
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    It's meant to be bad luck to sign your married name until after your married so I haven't tried yet lol xx
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    • MrsC.Wade2B
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    I've tried creating a new signature with soon2b married name and cannot find anything I like plus every time I write it similar to my current I sit there and lmao because it looks funny when you realise the spelling (I always include my middle names) xx

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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    Same Georgi Me have mine perfected it like my old signature different surname and squiggles n joining me like my new one but so used to my maiden signature =D Cannot wait till I can sign in my new Sig =D ♥ X

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    • Little Kettle
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    Interesting but useless fact of the day from me...legally, you can sign whatever the heck you want. If you wanted your signature to be a smiley face, then so long as you always sign it in the same way, then that's your signature, end of. Therefore, in theory, if you changed your name when you got married but kept signing your maiden name, then that would be OK.
    I only know this as when I went to the bank specifically to change my name, I signed in my maiden name first, and then I realised as I was handing the form over and tried to get it back. That's when the lady in the bank said it wouldn't have mattered, I would just need to remember that my signature hadn't actually changed! She did, however, give me a new form :)

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    • Velcro
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    I was wondering this myself! Now I know lol!

    I don't think Owen will be too hard to sign, il probably just do a scribble like I do now, I can't be bothered writing my surname out, it feels like it takes 3 hours haha

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    • Finally Susan B
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    Little Kettle: I guess that makes sense - when I was into family history things lots of the really old marriage certificates had X as a signature - guess not being able to write doesn't mean you can't legally be married
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    • Little Kettle
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    Yeah, I guess, when you look at it like that, it makes complete sense Almost Mrs B!

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    • InDreamland
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    Wow, I never expected such a great response, interesting that it's bad luck to practice before you're married, glad I haven't played with it yet now! I will wait til after we're married before giving it a go.

    Thanks for the clarity on this one xxx

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    • mym72
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    You can sign with your maiden name on anything even when you're married, as you don't have to change your name if you don't want. When signing the register after the ceremony though, you do have to sign with your maiden name and not your new name (as it's your maiden name on the marriage certificate).

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    • InDreamland
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    I love this site, so helpful, I'd be lost without all the practical advice xx

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    • Bobsi
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    My signature is just squiggles lol. Doesn't resemeble my name in any way.
    Can I keep it or would I have to change?

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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    So your sign with your maiden name on the marriage certificate and your sign with your new signature when you set up a new account with your husband and when you sign anything else from your wedding day cannot wait to change my signature and Bobsi change your sig if you want too you don't have to if you don't wish too if you want it to resemble your new married name then change your signature =D ♥ X

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    • MrsH-2B
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    My sig now is a G and a wiggly line after it lol.. My married signature is actually legible :-) I sign my name several times a day at work so can't wait to be signing my new name when we're married :-D xxx

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    • JennyHeather
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    H2B had a look at me practising my new signature and he laughed and said it was crap

    He then did a signature on behalf of me and made it look so much better grrrr.

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