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    • BeccyL
      CommentAuthorBeccyL
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    Hi Girls,

    My partner is Scottish and would like to wear is clan kilt, firstly I am a little worried that the colours wont go with the colour theme of the wedding, also my Dad who will give me away would prefer not to wear a kilt... Am I being evil if I say no to kilts full stop or would my Dad be able to wear a suit whilst the groom and the best man wore there kilts? Would this look stupid? Any advice would be grateful.

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    Beccy x

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    • Joanna
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    I think you could have the groom and bm in kilts and the other men in suits. I don't think it would look weird x

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    • InDreamland
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    I think if h2b is in a kilt and the rest of the men in suits or tails it'll look fine hun and then h2b will stand out too from the rest of the men in the bridal party. Don't worry about the kilt clashing with the colour scheme, I think it will look fine and actually very nice x

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    • Shazk
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    I agree H2b in kilt and rest in suits will look fine, i dont think it would be fair to ask either h2b or dad to wear something they dont want to. xxx

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    • *KelBel*
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    I don't think it would look weird either xx

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    • vicki
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    I don't think it will look weird. My OH, his BM and our son (PB) will all be in kilts but my Dad will be in a suit and I have to say my OH looks amazing in his kilt
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    • JillianL47
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    I think it's perfectly acceptable. Good luck finding colours that don't clash though.
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    • x~Hails~x
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    My h2b is scottish and he too was thinking of wearing the family kilt!
    If he did him and the best man would be the only ones in them the rest would wear suits so yep I think it would look fab!

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    • sarah
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    I think it'll look fine x




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    • Blue
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    Same here, H2B is scottish, but i have talked him out of official rangers tartan and into grey spirit, my dad has agreed to wear the kilt .. tho i dont really want my pure yorkshire dad to be wearing a kilt to be honest. So im thinkin grey tail coats to match.

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    • Blue
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    something similar to these
    both white shirts and red cravats also using the same waistcoat x

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    • sarah
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    I agree with you Mrs2be - the kilt wearing should be left to those that are actually Scottish




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    • BeccyL
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    Thanks for all your responses girls appreciate it :-) xx

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    • KarenP75
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    I think it will look great, will make the groom stand out more as well. x
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    • Tori
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    H2b is Scottish and so wearing a kilt and so are the men in his family my side will be wearing normal suits x




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    • Jennifer84
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    It would be fine to have your h2b in a kilt and your Dad in a suit. Your h2b will really stand out then. I love a kilt! Xx
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    • devilspartner
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    when my uncle who is scottish married my welsh auntie, the groom, the groomsmen and the guests who were scottish wore kilts, it looked fine. What are your wedding colours as the same tartan can have many different variations. xx




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    • Crawf
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    I don't know if it helps but my family are Scottish and Irish, his are English.
    My brothers will all be wearing a matching a kilt and a number of guests from my side will be but Groomsmen and Groom and FOB wont be wearing kilts.
    I am hoping it looks nice having a some suits, some kilts etc. like a big eclectic mix of cultures :)

    xx
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    • Susie
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    It really wont look weird at all. My H2B is wearing a kilt, with button hole ribbons to match, my Dad is Welsh (though I am also Scottish as is H2B) and is also hiring a Kilt in Dress Stewart colours as his grandparents were Scottish too. Other gentlemen coming are in either kilts or suits. It doesn't make it look out of place. My theme colours are black and white with hints of silver. His kilt is dark green with blue, red and white, and my father's is a creamy light ivory, red and white. So basically all the colours possible different to my theme. It wont look odd :) Not in my opinion anyhow!

    Your H2B might be a little offended if you tell him outright no, might be worth asking if it is truly important to him that he wear it. There is no chance whatsoever that Dave wouldn't wear his, it is integral to him, and his family.
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    • MrsThomson2B
      CommentAuthorMrsThomson2B
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    Let those who want to wear kilts wear them and those who dont wear suits. My whole bridal party except from my scottish fil will be wearign kilts. he refuses point blank and i could strangle him for it but i got 2 years to wear him down x
 

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