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    • mrsr2b
      CommentAuthormrsr2b
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    Girls sorry for the rant but i am so f*cked off rght now....
    this starts months ago, when i was working full time, his brother wasnt working at all, and every other week before he was due his benefit, he would phone and ask me for the lend of £20-£30 which i always lent him!!!!!
    then when i lost my job, what happened is that Billy got his money one week and his brother the following, so everytime h2b got his, his brother would be over here like a shot asking for the lend of ten or 20 quid untl the next week, which billy always lent him so that we would have money the week that we didnt get any!! This was all the time!!!!!!! EVEN NOW!

    So now my money has stopped, as i moved it from one town to another twice within a few months, so i have to go down there on friday and sort it out!!...
    So BIL2b was online last night and i asked him for the lend of a FIVER! for electric, or myself and h2b will be sat here in the dark until saturday from tomoro, and he has completely ignored me!!!!


    Sorry for the rant ladies but im so pi**ed off i could cry, we always help him out, even when it leaves us with nothing, and now he wont even respond to a fiver... grrrrrrrrrr
    xx
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    • MRST
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    typical family hunni, some ppl just take take take, always about when they want somethin. I have a fiver here if you want it lol x
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    • mrsr2b
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    lol ta doll, but ur too far away :)
    he is just bein a t*sser, even billy is so pi**ed with him right now!!
    x
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    • alibum
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    you should be ranting!! some people rally like to take the mick..have you told h2b that his brither ignored you? i would stop giving his brothers any money at all from now on the cheeky gets that they are!! (((hugs))) is there anybody else you can borrow a fiver off?
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    • MRST
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    my mum and dad ask me for it alot too, the last time we really had no money will the oh got paid, she cast it up to me two weeks ago saying im sitting up here with nothing. makes me mad coz i was sitting here with nothing. Ppl are just so selfish and self centered x

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    hes bang out of order,why is it some people work on the basis of ONE RULE FOR YOU ANOTHER RULE FOR ME!!!!!,,,it personally tell him that hes not "borrowing " any more money off you at all ,,he can sit and suffer,the bank is clossed,hun if i lived closser id lend it to you,iv been there so i know what its like,,big hugs x~x~X
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    • mrsr2b
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    yeah alibum he knows, his brother ignored him too when he asked him!! so billy has said we are not lending him any money EVER again!!
    i dont have anyone else i can borrow it off... it just bugs me so much that we do so much for him, and never ask him for anything in return and when we do he ignores us :'(
    x
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    • mrsr2b
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    thanks tiggs huni!!
    i really am upset, even the times recently that we havent had the money to lend him we have bought him tobacco, milk etc, and even when he has been here we have opened our cupboards to him so he doesnt go hungry!! sometimes i wish i wasnt so bloody nice :(
    x
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    • Suzi
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    Morale of the story hun... stop lending him money! You have a wedding to pay for and that is more important! I know exactly how you feel cos my BIL is similar! He only owes me £60 but whenever it is mentioned he changes the subject! ive decided im going to do a speech at my wedding and at the end of it ask for the money back (he is the best man lol)

    Im sorry your feeling so bad hun! Your like me, just cant say No! Well it's time you did hun! x x

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    • mrsr2b
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    i know suzi, i dont think id be so annoyed if i was asking for money to go drinkin or somethin or asking him for £20+
    but is only a bloody fiver, like a dont feel crap enuff that i dont even have a fiver :'(
    thanks girls for letting me rant!! :(
    x
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    he needs to learn the world doen not revolve around him,other people have needs that matter,its not just him
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    • mrsr2b
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    i intend on tellin him that wen i next c him tiggs x
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    you make sure you do ,,people like that annoy me so much,,they really need to see the bigger picture
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    • mrsr2b
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    well just a wee update i told him exactly how it was!!! and guess what....... he got us electric!!!!!! yay!!
    thanks again ladies
    xx
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    omg what a result!!!!!!!
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    • CupCake
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    did you faint with shock mrsr2b??? lol so glad you are not sitting there in the dark though hun, I was worried for you xx

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    • Goff
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    RESULT!! x

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    • alibum
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    I'm glad he saw sense:)xx
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    • MRST
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    good, he must have felt guilty :)
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    • Magsy
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    oh that's really good x

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    • Possum
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    I think you and your h2b need to talk and say to him that you won't be lending him money any more because it isn't lending and you need the money!
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    • mrsr2b
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    i think me cryin and screaming at him mighta helped lol!!
    i felt really shitty tho girls, sorry for such a rant earlier and thanks for all ur lovely supportive posts!!!!

    and we arent lending him money anymore and he knows it bcoz he is so ungrateful and selfish!!
    xxx
 

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