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    • Relfy
      CommentAuthorRelfy
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    sorry girls. off on a rant today.

    Just came in to work to an email from a couple of guest telling us that they cant make it. Im 10 days until the day... everything is booked and paid and now you tell me you cant make it. ... im now trying to bump evening guest up to the day so we dont lose out on money ARHHHHHH!!! xx
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Any reason?

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    • DrunchPunk
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    People are so unreliable :( as Dove says though, did they have a good reason?

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    • Mrs fairytale
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    people just dont get the stress they coz by doing shit like that, hope they have a bloody good reason xx

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    • Relfy
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    No reason at all, not even an apologie!! its h2B mates, just called him and he didnt seem to fussed about the stress its causing x
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    • Suzi
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    You will ALWAYS get someone that does it hun! I know it must be so annoying for you! And then you feel awkward inviting new people!! Grrr pet hate of mine is cancelling at the last minute!! Try not to stress to much hun, remember this is suppose to be fun! BIG HUGS!!! x

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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    god, I bet we all get something like this. I will be livid, esp since you arent likely to be able to get your money back :(

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    • catch
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    oh! nightmare, l sent out my day guests menu with rsvp three of my guests can't make it from my h2b side which is a shame as he only has very small family mine's is huge, but l understand as they live in tiptree! so expense of trip up to scotland, them venue stay so we will visit them later in the year and send them cake xx
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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Thats rude... I hate it when people cancel for anything without a good reason! At least they had the decency to tell you though... a wedding I went to a year ago there were two empty spaces at the table- with no explanation from the guests!

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    • Mrs fairytale
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    men dont get it, sorry that u having this stress so close to your big day, fingers crossed for ya hun that u get it sorted xx

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    • Relfy
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    no way Dove - i would not be happy if that happened to us. I'm not sure if im old fashioned but if you say you are coming then you turn up, unless something tragic happens .... just contacted 2 people to come to the day, hopefully i will find out later on. Still have 3 more spaces to fill - lol - any ladies in the essex area and fancy a day out lol?? xx
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    • Mrs Turps (Nicpep)
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    its so bad, cos you feel really cheeky bumping up the guests now too

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    • Claire Sky
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    i'd give the extra meals to my grandad! he eats loads! he'd love it!! lol xxx dont worry too much hon xxx thay mustn't be that good of friends anyway xxxxxx not long to go now xx eeek xxxx
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    • Mrs Alsbetty
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    at least a good reason or a nice apology would be good or even offering to pay for their meal. If i had to do that to someone i would offer to pay for my bit, not that i would unless my head had fallen off or something! seems to me a good job they aren't coming as they obviously don't care that much! and someone will be dead chuffed to be a day guest too! x

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    • CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs Nicol
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    don't stress just take a deep breath it will all work out... :)
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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    it really is annoying,but dont let them spoile your excitement leading up to your big day,,its still going to be beautifull x~x~x
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    • Relfy
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    thanks ladies. feeling much better about it all now. just going to go with the flow and not get to stressed and ejoy what little time i have before the big day x x
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    • Possum
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    They should have to pay a cancellation fee!
 

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