FREE Wedding Table Planner

+ FREE Wedding Budget Planner and more wedding planning tools

Join now free to use

Wedding Forum - Worried!...

Not signed in (Sign In)

UKbride Supermarket


* Discount available to Power Users only. Terms and conditions apply. more

  1.  
    • AH86
      CommentAuthorAH86
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      Ticker backgroundTicker foreground
     
    Hey all,

    My bros GF let slip where I'm going to be going on my hen do tonight (although I didn't tell her I didn't know as didn't want to upset her). Anyway, my BMs didn't tell me because they didn't want to me to search it and figure out what we'd be doing which I found strange as that wouldn't of crossed my mind, anyway, so I did when I found out (naughty I know) but didn't think id find anything. Anyway, it's Birmingham and my new request was no strippers and the first thing that comes up is the dreamboys... Is this why they didn't want me to search it!?! Now I'm worried but not sure what to do. Do I go along with it!? Genuinely will hate it! I find it all very cringe!

    What would you do?

    Members signature icon
    Friday 10th April 2015
    Marrying my best friend
    Not long now :D
  2.  
    • AH86
      CommentAuthorAH86
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      Ticker backgroundTicker foreground
     
    My one request sorry not new

    Members signature icon
    Friday 10th April 2015
    Marrying my best friend
    Not long now :D
  3.  
    • ErinV
      CommentAuthorErinV
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      Just marriedBadgeBadge
     
    Oh dear, did she actually say it was dreamboys or did she drop a hint about it being a show? I wouldn't be very happy if that was me as I can't stand things like that but I was very open with my BMs and stated exactly what I wanted and asked to be informed of things.
  4.  
    • Showgirl
      CommentAuthorShowgirl
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      BadgeBadge
     
    I'm sure it will be fine. It may be starting at Dreamboys and then going on to do something else. Or maybe she did already know that you were in the dark and 'let slip' to wind you up a bit... its mean, but if that was your only request and I thought you'd instantly look everything up then I'd be tempted to throw some false info your way. There's loads to do in Brum anyway so it may be a night down Broad Street or Mailbox or something.
  5.  
    • Whovianbride
      CommentAuthorWhovianbride
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      Ticker backgroundIs poweruserJust marriedBadgeBadgeTicker foreground
     
    I don't think dream boys are like normal strippers, they are norm on a stage not sat in you or humpoing you etc, try not to worry and remember you can always say no, maybe before you go in say to you mph etc, I did say no strippers but I will go in and see what urs about but if I say no to something they want me to do or something then I mean no and do not want to be bullyed in to it.

    Members signature icon
    Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
    together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
    August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
    Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
  6.  
    • VictoriaL46
      CommentAuthorVictoriaL46
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      Ticker backgroundIs poweruserJust marriedBadgeBadgeTicker foreground
     
    I can't stand strippers, just grosses me out. I would be honest with the other BMs and say "yes she accidentally let slip but if this is true it's on the cards please don't"

    Members signature icon
    Met in Nov 2005
    Engaged 13th June 2013
    Becomes Mrs Stewart on 10th Aug 2015 Honeymoon in Florida!
    My Diary Thread: My Alice in Wonderland Wedding Diary
  7.  
    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      Ticker backgroundIs poweruserJust marriedBadgeBadgeTicker foreground
     
    Could you drop some very heavy hints, without saying that you know.

    Members signature icon
    30th August 2014 was the best birthday ever.
    It was the day that I became Mrs. Dixon.

  8.  
    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 23rd 2014
      Is poweruserJust marriedBadgeBadge
     
    Dreamboys is completely different, they have a drag act up on stage as well as part of a large cabaret show ... We're doing it as part of my hen do in Newcastle in August, I'm like you tho, won't be going up on stage and will be mad if I get volunteered to do so, but thought it would be fun and a little bit of tack lol!
    The other girls will enjoy it too, there's lots to do in the big cities so it may be that you're not even doing that so don't worry, just enjoy it and if you are going there just say right from the go that under no circumstances are u going on stage, like I am xx

    Members signature icon
    Velcro...my wedding day twinny! The Two Kel's!
    Got engaged 14/10/12 in Central Park NYC!
    Became Mrs Macdonald 13th September 2014
    Mummy to 4 girlies and baby blue boy Due 10/05/2016
  9.  
    • AH86
      CommentAuthorAH86
      Posted: Jun 26th 2014
      Ticker backgroundTicker foreground
     
    Thanks for your comments ladies... I think I will just wait and see and although I'd go in my main concern is being made to go on stage. I will be stating that if I end up about to go in!

    Members signature icon
    Friday 10th April 2015
    Marrying my best friend
    Not long now :D
 
Enter Now