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    • MrsCross2be
      CommentAuthorMrsCross2be
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 20th 2014
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    So it is my Northern Hen Do on Saturday- very excited!! Going to a Spa for lunch and an "Aqua Thermal Journey", getting ready at my grandmas empty bungalow with games and nibbles, limo to meal and cocktail making, nightclub, people staying over at the bungalow. Me and mum going back to the spa for a massage on the Sunday.

    But the whole thing is stressing me out. My MOH was meant to organise this but as people on here will know last summer she ditched me without any explanation. So my 2 BMs took over organising, one was treading on the others toes so I was down to the 1 organising. She started a Masters and has no time - all the way along I have offered to just sort myself. Now it seems to be a case of too many cooks spoil the broth as my mum has being trying to help (really I should just have got her to do it all along since she is my best friend). And I cant stand how disorganised everyone is it is driving me nuts. I wasnt meant to know anything that we are doing- now I know it all.
    People who have said they are coming to one part and not another have changed their minds- people needed to order their food for the evening and havent- people who say for definate if they are staying/ want to come in the limo/ want to share a taxi......
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    • clair
      CommentAuthorclair
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 20th 2014
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    I think u need to give every one a kick up the bum! Just get in contact with people and get answers. Just say u need to know now! If they still don't give u a expiation,u need to tell them they won't get a meal and they won't get to go in the limo. Sometimes u have to be a bit harsh and blunt for people to give u the answers u want. Don't stress your self out if they don't answer then they are not worth wording about. Just go and enjoy it with the people that do turn up and fun :). Xx

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 20th 2014
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    Oh god, sounds like a nightmare D: weddings are a nightmare!

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    • AprilS61
      CommentAuthorAprilS61
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 21st 2014
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    I agree with Clair! Don't worry too much about everything, try and enjoy it, it's all about you! That goes for your hen and wedding ;)

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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 21st 2014
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    I think I'm pretty much going to be organising my own. My MOH is happy to do it but is so busy, and I need her to concentrate on making bridesmaids dresses. The other MOH has just had a baby so honestly I think she'll be doing well to be there.

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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 21st 2014
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    Sounds just like mine is with it! Had it up to the moon and bk lol x

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