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    • XLittleMissMe!X
      CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
     
    H2b and I have decided to be traditional and not spend the night before the wedding together so I'm booking into a nice hotel with a suite big enough for all the bridesmaids and photographers as it will also be easier for us all. I was just wondering at what time the day before h2b and I have to part? Ideally I would like him to be able to go with me to the venue in the morning to drop everything off then drop me off at the hotel in the afternoon once I have had my nails done etc so I can leave my car at home. At what point do you say the cut off time is?




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    • mrs handforth
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    i cant really say i think im guna pack h2b off bout teatime ish x
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    • Kaya
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    A lot of people have a rehersal dinner before, so I'd say, whenever you want it to be.... the tradition is that they don't see you when they wake up on the morning of the wedding x

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    So the idea of going doing things earlier in the day isn't a bad one then? Phew it will make my life so much easier.




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    • MrsMelodyWalker
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    I think the "traditional" way is to part way's at Sun set and not see each other again till the wedding, which will be after sun rise

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    • contact@weddingdream
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    I agree with Kaya, A lot of my clients do so. The only rule is: When you wake up, he isn't there :). Good luck
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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    Ooooo I'm off to check when the sun sets in September now. At least it won't be as long apart as I thought as I wasn't looking forward to packing him off in the morning. I need him to keep me calm lol.




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    • Unknown
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    i didnt know that about sunset/sunrise.

    maybe someone can help me then-sorry to hijack your thread.

    me and h2b are getting married on july 30th but it is one of our friends 30th on july 29th and she is having a party. we are both planning on going but i wont stay late as not drinking and having to drive to venue. is this bad luck? xx




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    • Croc
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    im packing h2b off about 6pm..

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    Go ahead and hi jack all you like lol.

    Hmmm first of all don't drink too much as you don't want to be tired or hung over on your wedding day. Maybe leave about 10.30 so you are both in bed nice and early etc?




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    • MrsMelodyWalker
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    There's a poem about the sunset sunrise thing, it's what me and h2b will be doing but I don't think it's bad luck if you do see each other as long as it's not on the morning of the wedding, its fine

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    • lala "mod" bunni
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    you cant see him after midnight

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    • Julie Walker x
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    We are taking some friends out for a meal the night before but it won't be a late night because of the children so I guess I will be saying goodnight at around 9pm Then off to the hotel he goes. x

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    • sam73
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    He is going the night before around 6 to a hotel with his parents then i wont see him again until 1.30 in the church
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    • VintageChic
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    I'd agree with midnight lol i wanna spend every last second i can with him lol

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    • MrsOwen
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    ill be leaving about teatime, but i will most probably be texting him lol x

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    • Rachie :D
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    before midnight or you'll turn into a pumpkin :)

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Think I was dropped off about 5.30-6ish at my overnight hotel after the church rehearsal/decorating.

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    • XLittleMissMe!X
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    Hahaha I'm round enough to be a pumpkin so best not go for a spray tan or people will think we were up to something the night before lmao




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    • hjl2001uk
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    We'll both be at the venue till after dinner then he goes back to our house and I stay there with my Bms and the rest of the wedding party.

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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    am not seein mine from mornin ish! no offence wats h2b gunna do to decorate venue/ if hes owt like mine he wont be any help lol so bms will b takin em venue and decorating it etc so it be a surprise for him

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    • suzky123
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    from what I can gather before 12 am as thats the DAY

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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
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    guna let h2b put kids to bed and say our er um good byes then send him packin bout 8.30.lol.x

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    • mrswb2b
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    am i the onli one who is spending the night with h2b,lol xx
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    • kellyc13
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    h2b, our daughter and i are all having a late lunch, early tea at about 5ish and that will be our farewell dinner, i dont like being away from him so i think after tea, by the time ive had a long bath, watched a crappy film with my bridesmaids it will be bedtime so hopefully not that bad. x

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    • stressed to max b2b
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    im wanting to pack mine off for a week before the wedding, just so after that time we'll have missed each other and will be excited about seeing each other again as well as it been the wedding day, but dont think he wants to. So it will prob end up been the friday dinner time x

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    • *Vixie*
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    im parting from mine after our rehearsal at the church as were having it the evening before. im staying at my mums and he's staying with his best man as he doesnt want to be on his own the night before xx
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    • pennieb-MrsRiley
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    Blimey - in November sunset is about 4.30 isn't it?? Will be a bit later than that for us I think!

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    • Suzie Bear
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    Probably Saturday before teatime. I'll go to my mums and have some of her good old fashioned cooking like a little girl again :0)

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    • lil miss sunshine
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    eeerm i getting rid of h2b the night before then i'm having an early check in to the hotel on the morning easier for me to leave from there..........so excited not too long now to go

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    • Oct12bride86
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    We will be driving to the hotel together so we will see each other in the morning but we will be spending the night is seperate rooms. I am booking the bridal suit for me to sleep in and for me and the bridesmaids (if they want) to get ready in on the wedding day.

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    • mcewan07
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    my other half is driving me down to my dads, then returning home the night before the wedding, so will leave about 10ish i think . I would agree with most that 12 midninght would be a cut off point. Then he hasn't saw you at all the day of the wedding. But obviously many will not be together till midnight- so relax enjoy yourself the day before , go out for a meal have him drop you off wherever it may be that your staying with a goodnight kiss, and then relax till the morning.

    Thats what ill be trying to do, no doubt will wake up with 1001 stress spots braking out the next day lol
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    • becky -mrs firth
      CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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    i want a girlie day the day before weddin after sorted decorations out and last minute things...... no offence girls we are gettin married to spend the rest of our lifes together so a 'last girlie' day before the big day is well needed lol

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    • mcewan07
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    lol , the night before i am getting in pizza/sweets etc and some good dvd's fluffy dressing gown and slippers n im going to curle up and watch tv. With or without my OH. He usually disapears anyway to talk to my dad, so i will get peace :D
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    • sarahuttley2b-[keera
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    my moh is coming to stay we r going to watch chick flicks and av some pampering,maybe few cheeky drinks.x

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    • ljeh92
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    i think im gonna go out for a meal with h2b on the night before (our last meal where we're not husband and wife) then im gonna go home and my bridesmaids are coming up and hes gonna go to his brothers.

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