We were all set on the 5th november 2011 but now we have moved into the house h2b wants to wait till we have the money saved up enough and my mum doesnt want me to get married at all (its just a peace of paper she says, coming from the woman whos bin married 3 times) and we wanted to try for another baby after the wedding but if we move the date we have to wait longer (i dont want to do that) or not at all :-(.
I give up cus I was so miserable in the flat and the area we lived, im so happy here to point where iv got so much energy. H2b was happy at the flat but doesnt seem happy now, I dont know what to do. I feel like everything I do is wrong.
Should I move the date?? Not get married?? forget about the baby??
I dont want to but not sure anyone else seems to care what I think.
Our 2 Daughters - Skye born 04/06/06 & Danah born 24/08/07
Our son - Axel born 05/02/12
My Husband is Benjamin Smith lol
Im now Mrs Smith :-), Married since 11th August 2012
CommentAuthorPennylane
Can you do your original date but make some budget cuts/have a smaller wedding? x
02.07.11
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CommentAuthordebs x
Hugs hun, sometimes everything gets on top of people and your going for the three biggest events most people have, have a chat with H2b and talk things through with him x
CommentAuthorgemmam99
It's awful that you feel that way hun. Have you booked anything yet? Perhaps you should leave it a month or two so you can really settle into your new home before deciding on moving the date or cancelling. Moving house is stressful enough without having a wedding to plan. Just enjoy being engaged and in a new home for a bit and perhaps things will work themselves out. I also wouldn't worry about what your mum thinks, even though it's hard. It's your decision at the end of the day.
Big hugs x
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
don' go into debt for it you should move the date rather than do that. but there are lots of ways of saving money on the day you could always sell some stuff.
baby defo don't forget about it if thats what you want you should have another one and h2b probably just needs to settle in the new place give it time.
things will get better
Dyslexic
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Pennylane - We could but I know id want to renew are vows at a later a date doing that as iv always wanted to get married in tutbury castle, its bin my dream and dont want to have to give that up. Im doing everything as cheap as poss anyway its just the venue thats expensive but still I feel like just forgetting the whole thing and not bothering anymore
Our 2 Daughters - Skye born 04/06/06 & Danah born 24/08/07
Our son - Axel born 05/02/12
My Husband is Benjamin Smith lol
Im now Mrs Smith :-), Married since 11th August 2012
CommentAuthorTerribabylove
Gemmam99 - We have the date logged at the castle but havnt payed deposit yet so no not really booked. I do understand where your coming from xx
Our 2 Daughters - Skye born 04/06/06 & Danah born 24/08/07
Our son - Axel born 05/02/12
My Husband is Benjamin Smith lol
Im now Mrs Smith :-), Married since 11th August 2012
