Hello, I have recently got engaged, and now myself and my partner are debating if we should either get married first or rent/buy a place first. There is a bit of distance between us but we have managed this long so far with it.
The wedding we hope for will be small and intimate, but we are contemplating eloping as well because as in general, we don't want to spend much money. We do want to get a place however we don't want to settle too quickly as we are actively looking for better jobs which may include relocation.
Either way one of us will be getting a new job possibly in a new location, so we just would like to get an idea of what we should put a bit more focus on.