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    • SharonD111
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Mar 5th 2018
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    We got married after having to cancel the 1st wedding due to my partner being taken critically ill , 3 days before we were getting married.
    I was amazing and we are so happy but , it wasn't. How the first wedding was planned. There was only 8 people there our son and granddaughter couldn't come , and haven't been able to put any photos on Facebook or change my name.
    As nobody knows that we have gotten married as my husband's family have been that nasty , we Don't want them causing anymore trouble.
    We would love to get our vows renewed but we haven't got any money plus I don't think my dress will fit as I have put on weight due to all stress.
    I know I am probably being selfish but the day was just flat I couldn't stop crying I was a mess , we were in bed for 8.00 as my husband had only been walking for a week. I just feel sad .
    I keep dreaming of a new wedding day and having the honeymoon we dreamed off having. And having my best friends and family there we have been together 26 years . We were so excited leading up to the big day.
    But our wedding was booked on the Friday and we got married on the Wednesday, It was all so Quick
    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
      Got married 9 years ago
      Posted: Mar 6th 2018
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    Firstly, weddings never actually go they way you have them in your head ..... we had the only day of torentical ran in July 2012 !

    Remember you married the person you share your heart with, why not plan a vow renewal for an anniversary .. 5 yrs is a good one or on the original wedding date. Most importantly your husband is slowly getting better so focus ion that with a long term goal

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