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    • InDreamland
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    No worries hunni, it'll get easier. Try to focus on your wedding and all the lovely friends you still have x

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    • FutureMrs-B
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    Thank you beauty I'll try xxxx

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    • Velcro
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    aw well, she just sounds like an ar$e then :/ did you respond to the status?

    id of been tempted to shame her tbh lol. or does everyone who matters know what she is like? i had my sil post a passive aggressive status about me, i let it go purely because the people that mattered knew the score. balls to anyone elses thoughts on her 'one sided' version :D

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    • Myranny
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    Sadly, your oldest friends are not always your best friends. I knew a girl from age 4 to age 21. We were, I thought, the best of friends. But we weren't; she was just there to feed on my misery. We'd go out and get drunk 3 nights a week (when 18+, obvs) and I put on loads of weight, was out of control a bit and as soon as i got the courage to leave my partner of 5 years at 21, got happy, lost weight and met H2B, she didn't want to know.

    It hurts now, but it won't for long :) xx
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    • Glitterfairy
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    I wouldn't be surprised if she was secrectly gutted about this and thinking that she wished now she could turn back the clock and have more to do with it, but the damage is done now.

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    • FutureMrs-B
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    @velcro no babe I didn't reply at all I rose above it tbh

    @myranny that's awful I hope everything has worked out for you now beaut?

    @glitterfairy I dont get the impression she's gutted at all because of the nasty status and that's true hon damage is done now

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    • Glitterfairy
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    it might be a cover up to make it look like she is angry about it. Suppose only she knows but certainly no reason to come out with those comments like she is. It's childish behaviour which you are better off without.

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    • FutureMrs-B
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    Yes deffo only she knows the reason why she's acting like this! This was her second chance as well I just gotta be strong enough too NOT give another chance when it comes too it because I know she'll try and contact me eventually as this is what happened the first time and I was stupid enough too stand for it; stupid stupid me

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Yep defo don't let it happen again.

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    • FutureMrs-B
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    H2B is fuming over the whole situation tbh cuts he hates seeing me upset just gotta be strong when she comes crawling back

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    • michgib
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    Yes you stay strong and dont get hurt again xx
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    • Velcro
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    its a shame when your so called friends act like this, sending you virtual hugs ):

    shame no ones invented teleportation, id come cheer you up with a brew and a buscuit :)

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    • Myranny
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    FutureMrs-B, in my case I cut the friend out of my life and I'm much happier for it. You may well find that it's better to "unfollow" her on the book of face so you can't see any more of her posts and snide comments, or if you're prepared to (baring in mind she's already blown her second chance) unfriend her completely and call it a day. It hurts to start with, but you may feel better for it in the end xx
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    • FutureMrs-B
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    Sorry I haven't been active on here I've been really poorly thanks so much for your kind words and comments ladies

    She rang me being abusive and I told her straight and she tried too guilt trip me again but I did t rise too it
    I told her her and her partner are welcome as guests (yes I know I'm soft and way too nice)
    But the friendship will never be how it was and we haven't spoken since

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    • Glitterfairy
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    You're being kind allowing her to attend really.

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    • FutureMrs-B
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    H2B said that and so did my bridesmaids

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    • InDreamland
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    I wouldn't be having her as a guest after that. You're way too nice.

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    • michgib
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    I wouldn't let her come to the wedding after that what a moo
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    • FutureMrs-B
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    I suppose I'm stupid? I'm just genuinely NOT a nasty person things may change between now and then I suppose?

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    • InDreamland
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    You're not stupid, just too nice. It's not a bad thing but you need to protect yourself from getting hurt.

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Defo not stupid, just a kind hearted person who hates upsetting people.

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    • Glitterfairy
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    And if she is being like that, I'd be surprised if she did not turn up, but said she would.

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    • FutureMrs-B
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    I am trying too do so and just focusing on the positive and leaving her and her bad attitude too it I believe in karma and what goes around comes around; I treat others well even if they don't do the same for me

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    • Glitterfairy
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    I do the same, I try not to lower myself to their level.

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    • Velcro
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    got 24 months to go at least, she might either sort her act our or she'll just naturally phase out of your life

    all the best hun, its no fun breaking up with your friends even when they are d1cks ):

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    • Myranny
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    And, if she doesn't sort her act out, there's plenty of time for her invite to get lost in the post, eh? :) x
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    • FutureMrs-B
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    Thanks girls *big hugs too you all*

    Yessssssss myranny I like that one hahaha

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Love the 'lost in the post'

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    • FutureMrs-B
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    Me too lol

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