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Rings / Jewellery: Urgent decision needed!

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- CommentAuthorCatherineR
I have an eternal dilemma....

ER 1: Original ring from my fiancee and would need a straight band

ER 2: Sapphire ring from fiancee's family (old heirloom) and would need a shaped band

I prefer the sapphire as my ER but a straight band from original (majorly OCD!) as I hate the look of shaped rings without the ring there a may want/need days with just my wedding band.

Which combo?!

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
Shaped ring to go with the family heirloom engagement ring the sapphire is gorgeous Xxx

Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
- CommentAuthorElizabethF49
I would go with the sapphire and a shaped WR xx

After 7 years and 11 months he proposed to me 18.10.13
Our son is 5 years old and our world
Getting married 15.08.15.
Life hasnt been easy but we have each other :)
- CommentAuthorWhovianbride
I love the sapphire too.

Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
- CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Your sapphire ring is lovely, I'd go with that with a shaped wedding ring. I know what you mean though, hubby got me an eternity ring for xmas, I picked one out but they never had my size, so we went shopping together, it had to look right, all my rings are straight though so easily matched,

Our wedding day - 6 October 2012

- CommentAuthorEmmaH444
Sapphire with the shaped band. :)

Met 29/3/2006
Engaged 24/8/13
Married 26th August 2016
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
Thanks for the help!

I love my sapphire so much so I think I will end up with a shaped by I can't quite visualize it :/ I think I need to see it when she makes the moulds!!

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorFlossie
Shaped with sapphire :) too pretty not to use x

Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
- CommentAuthorKatieH
Def shaped with Sapphire :)

Met in 2007
Started dating in 2009
Got engaged in 2014
Became Mrs Holme 11.06.16
- CommentAuthorDonnaH39
Shaped with the sapphire and just don't ever not wear the sapphire then noone will notice the shaped ring looks funny on it's own ;)
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
Good point Donna ;)

I think you are all right! I'll see what the mould looks like but I'm sure it will look fine - thanks!

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
I agree with everyone else. Your sapphire is gorgeous x

Became Mrs Wade 06/08/2016
- CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
Definitely shaped with sapphire! x

Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
Shaped.jpg
Shapes.jpg

These are the possible wedding rings - I think I prefer the less pointy one. What do you think? Still not sure about having a shaped :/

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorMrsEmmaP
I prefer the first one, the rounded one, but they both fit perfectly with your ER!

Got together on 14th March 2010
Got engaged on 25th December 2013
Became Mrs P on 14th May 2016 - best day ever!
- CommentAuthorFlossie
I prefer the second one, it just looks like a better fit round your ER x

Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
- CommentAuthorAprilS61
Thank got I have a small square diamond and dont have to make these decisions for myself lol!

Firstly, as Donna said, as long as you dont wear them separately, its not gunna look odd being shaped.
Second, I like the first one!

I do actually know someone who wears her wedding ring on her left hand and her ER on her right hand. If you really dont like the idea of a shaped ring you could always do that and get a straight band? Her husband doesn't actually wear his ring either! They make their own rules lol! There's nothing set in stone saying how you should and shouldn't wear them :) x

Mr & Mrs Swan 04/04/15
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
Shaped 2.jpg
Shapes 1.jpg

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
This is with an unshaped band which obviously I won't do... Maybe just a single band if I can't get over my OCD stuff? Lol

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorEmmaH444
You're right, unshaped wouldn't do. I personally like number 2 shaped.

Thankfully my ring is designed so that a straight band will fit up against it! x

Met 29/3/2006
Engaged 24/8/13
Married 26th August 2016
- CommentAuthorFlossie
Like April said, you could always opt for a plain straight band and just wear your ER on another finger :)

Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
- CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
The first one is the best the rounded shape not the pointed one I think it will look perfect your engagement ring be back with you very soon Xxx

Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college <3 X
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together <3 X
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
I think I'm going to go with your opinions. I just can't decide on WHICH ring.... I love the fit of ring 1 but like the smooth/curvy effect of ring 2 so I'm completely split on it because I think I decide on one but then look at the other picture!

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorWhovianbride
i like both but think the second shaped one is what i would pick.

Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
- CommentAuthorFlossie
Is there any way she could send you both so you can get a real feel for them to help you make your decision? I know she's your friend, so hopefully she would trust you to return one of them lol! x

Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
- CommentAuthorDonnaH39
I like the first unshaped one actually, but my favourite out of the four is the shaped second one.
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
I'm actually leaning more towards that one Donna.. Better fit all round but then I look at the pics and doubt myself!

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorCamilaL
Can't you find any shaped band on the same thickness of the ER? Like, your ER is really delicate and gorgeous. But all the bands are getting all the attention because of the thickness (my opinion, of course).
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
If it's any thinner it wouldn't work unfortunately :/ needs to be a bit thicker

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)
- CommentAuthorDonnaH39
Look up Kate middletons wedding ring, she has a straight band that sits under her engagement ring? Could you have something like that or would it not fit under?
- CommentAuthorDonnaH39
Or if not could you have a fancier band and wear one on the left, one on the right?

Just have the wedding ring put on your left finger in the ceremony and then have whichever on whichever hand you prefer?
- CommentAuthorDonnaH39
Or you could even use the engagement ring as a wedding ring?
- CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
The more curved one, not the pointy one, it sits better inside that one.

Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
- CommentAuthorFlossie
How about having a straight band but with a bit cut out in the middle so it's about to 'slot' into place around your engagement ring? I don't know if that's even do-able but worth a shot lol x

Happily married
18th June 2016
xx
- CommentAuthorCatherineR
Yes, I remember Kate's but then my WR would be completely hidden I think like hers and I'd like to see it occasionally ;)

My jeweler has said she can make a wax mould so that it can get a better fit so I think see what comes out of that! x

Married my wife on 15.08.15
Honeymooned on the Isles of Scilly :)

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