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    • CarrieM67
      CommentAuthorCarrieM67
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Hello all,

    Not sure what to say except that i am devestated. She is jealous and horrible and the man i love choose her over our wedding.
    I will never forgive her for the things she said and i know that we will now never have our happy ending.

    She is all we talk and fight about.

    I dont wont to loose him but nothing ever will be the same as he made his decision very clear: im his number ... Something
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    • Mrs M Wade
      CommentAuthorMrs M Wade
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Oh no Carrie. I am so sorry. Is there nothing that will change his mind? Sending big hugs xx

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    • FayeJ67
      CommentAuthorFayeJ67
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    I'm so sorry for you!

    Obviously I don't know the full story behind this but if he is not prepared to put you first then he is not the one and better to find out now than after the wedding.

    Hopefully you can move on and find some one better

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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Oh no, I'm sorry to read of this, I seriously hope you manage to work things out

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    • DonnaH39
      CommentAuthorDonnaH39
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Oh no, so sorry hun

    Families can be awful :( but I would question whether he cares for you as much as you do him if he doesn't put you first. I hope you can work things out




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    • MichelleC961
      CommentAuthorMichelleC961
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Oh no - seems like sisters are their to ruin families! OH and I just had big row over his sister-

    Don't know your story but hope you can work it out!

    With my OHs sister I can tolerate her to a certain point but then I snap!

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    • TheNewMrsBarrett
      CommentAuthorTheNewMrsBarrett
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Oh I'm so sorry to hear this, hope you can work things out hon xx
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    • Emmilou82
      CommentAuthorEmmilou82
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    I'm sorry to hear this....if he cannot put you first he's not worth the grief!!

    I know families are extremely important but so are you and he should know that.

    I'm so sorryy Hun xxx

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    • CommentAuthorKjs2016
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    oh gosh, so sorry to hear this :-( Hope you are bearing up.
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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Oh no, so sorry to hear this!

    Every woman deserves to be no.1 to the one she marries.

    Hope everything works out x

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    • StephH96
      CommentAuthorStephH96
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    This is so sad, I hope you can work something out xxx
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    • MrsC2bee
      CommentAuthorMrsC2bee
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    O no :( I'm not sure about the whole story but have you tried talking to him and making sure he's not just getting nerves and picked her because of them? X
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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 10th 2016
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    Sorry to read this. I would give it a few days before making any final decision. It may be that your OH needs time away from both you and his sister to work out how he really feels.

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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jan 11th 2016
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    So sorry to hear this. Hope you are ok.

    Leave it a couple of days and try to speak to him again it may have been in the heat of the moment. Yes she is family but you are also his family. his new family. Take care x

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    • KatieH
      CommentAuthorKatieH
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 11th 2016
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    So sorry to hear this. Hope you are ok and you can work things out. He may just need to cool off for a bit xx

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    • Baker2Be
      CommentAuthorBaker2Be
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Jan 12th 2016
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    o no! maybe when tempers cool it is something you can sit and talk about x

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    • MagpieBride
      CommentAuthorMagpieBride
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 12th 2016
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    Oh, hun, that's so sad. Many (((hugs))). Can't imagine what you must be going through. :(

    Maybe give it a couple days, then have a talk (on neutral ground, like in a coffee shop or something); perhaps you guys can work something out, or if not then you can at least move on a bit easier.
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    • princesspixie
      CommentAuthorprincesspixie
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 12th 2016
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    Oh no thats awful hope you're ok and manage to solve something xx

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jan 21st 2016
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    families can be awful. He should be putting you first. He doesn't sound like he deserves you tbh. I have nightmare inlaws and they are livid he has ''chosen'' me over them.

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    • VikkiH53
      CommentAuthorVikkiH53
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jan 24th 2016
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    Oh no, that's terrible. So sorry to hear that. I agree with others, may be wait a few days and then talk to him. The sister shouldn't make him choose but at the same time you are his family now, his new family.

    Really hope you can sort it out
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    • Sofia7
      CommentAuthorSofia7
      Posted: Feb 5th 2016
     
    This is heartbreaking...

    This actually happened to my Dad where his brother's wife made him choose between her or my Dad and he chose her so I've never met my Uncle and my Dad doesn't see his brother anymore...

    In my personal opinion, I always dismiss whoever is making me choose... whether they are family or not.

    I honestly think if the family is being complicated, it's not a good thing to marry into at all. I'm sorry you're going through this and hope you look at the bigger picture. <3

    -Sofia
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    • Celtic_Queen
      CommentAuthorCeltic_Queen
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Feb 5th 2016
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    Oh my gosh I am so sorry! It is heartbreaking, you must be going through so many emotions right now.

    We are here for you xx
 
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