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The Big Day > Wedding Nerves: Stupidly nervous and scared...

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    • EmilyB10
      CommentAuthorEmilyB10
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    This sounds silly but I am really nervous about the wedding. It's just hit me how massive it is to get married. I love my fiancé and can't think of any reason to be nervous but I am. Am I the only person who feels like this?

    With just under 6 weeks to go it's hit me how much has changed since we started planning. My grandad was walking me down the aisle but he passed away in November. My chief bridesmaid turned into an absolute nightmare and we aren't speaking. My fiancé isn't keen on some of my close friends from work who I have invited. My family is complicated and my brother and half sister are very negative towards my step sister and her fiancé... Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

    Feel like I'm going to explode and burst into random tears yesterday making my h2b think I'm having doubts about the wedding, which is ridiculous because I can't think of anything that would make me doubt him or us... I wish we hadn't planned this big day. I wish we had just disappeared and done it just the two of us somewhere...
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    • Susie
      CommentAuthorSusie
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    It isnt silly to feel like that doll!!

    I have just under 5 months to go and even I have had one or two wobbles and burst into tears! Relax and take time to reassure your fiance that it is not doubts causing it.

    It can be very overwhelming when loads of small negatives build into one cacophony of irritations.

    You will be fine doll, honestly. The people who come, need to just blooming well get on with it! If they cause you problems, just direct them to the door, because after all the planning you have been doing, you are there to enjoy your wedding day, not pander to people who are being negative towards each other.
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    • Whovianbride
      CommentAuthorWhovianbride
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    I know how you feel, we've had a long engagment and still have 18 months to go, but my godmother,gran and uncle have all died. and the girls I was going to have as bms and even MOH im not even friends with any longer.

    I think lots of people go through this nothing to do with not wanting to marry OH just nervous about the day. x

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    • EmilyB10
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    I just wanted everything to go smoothly. I hate planning. We normally do things spur of the moment for that reason... I think I just need to re focus on what the day means to me. Thanks guys. Glad I'm not the only person to feel like this and the meltdowns are normal x
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    • BeckyU98
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    i know how you feel. i had my first 'wobbly' this weekend lol. ive got 10 weeks left to go so a bit longer than you but had a bad week with my MOH announcing getting a sleeve and my step mom ruining my dress fitting and trying to get everyone together to try dresses on. the worst bit i have found about wedding planning is having to involve other people in stuff. best thing you can do is try not to worry - everything will sort itself out in the end and on the day you wont care about most stuff xxx

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    • EmilyB10
      CommentAuthorEmilyB10
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    I swear it was heartbreaking hearing my h2b thinking I didn't want to marry him... It's a nightmare trying to accommodate everyone and everything. I only have 2 bridesmaids now and they've never been around at the same time to try dresses on and stuff... Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh haha. Oh well, in 6 weeks, when it's all done, I'll be wondering what all the stressing was about.

    To top it of my mother in law to be has just informed me I need to ring about the flowers... It's the only thing we asked his parents to sort out and the first time they have contacted them is today and now I have to sort that too. It's too close to the wedding to be worrying about flowers... I honestly thought they'd already done it :-/ x
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    • BethanyS
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    Honestly I think I'll be exactly the same. The amount of time it takes to plan a wedding, so much can change! I've been plannig since about September last year on and off and I've already lost a bridesmaid like you. I think a big thing like a wedding shows people's true colours. I'm sure you'll be fine :) honestly, take a deep breath. X
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    • LeanneS91
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    I think because its so much pressure to plan the perfect day that you don't want anyone to ruin it. You just want it to be the best day of your life. And the easiest thing to do would be elope and just do if the 2 of you. But imagine all the people that care about you not getting to see one of the most special moments in your life. I'm sure everyone will put there feelins aside for your big day and like susie says If they try and ruin it show them the door.

    What about you and your oh go for a nice meal where it's just the two of you and forget about all the planning for one night and just relax and spend some quality time together. Men don't realise how much pressure is on us women to sort stuff out. My oh is so laid back I think he's asleep most of the time. Xx

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