Sorry ladies, this is going to be a long one, I REALLY need to vent!
As many of you know I was going for my Hen party yesterday - was really excited, train down to London, shopping, dinner out, show and drinks - sounds great right?
Well it WOULD have been great if it hadn't been for my older sister! Just a bit of background, we used to be really close but as we got older we grew apart and are now completely different, the result of which is that she drives me round the bend. Her heart is in the right place, she is desperate to please people, but the way she goes about it is SO annoying and everything has to be done at 100mph. Anyway, I wanted a nice chilled hen party and that is most certainly not what I got.
She moaned about practically everything, told us all what we should be doing rather than asking what we thought, insisted on doing all the tube navigation and would not listen to anyone else, walked off without us and then moaned that we were all going too slow, completely embarrassed us all in the restaurant and in the end I got so stressed with it all that I felt sick and couldn't eat anything anyway. So because of her I spent all last night feeling poorly, I couldn't eat my dinner, felt rubbish through the show and then simply couldn't face drinking so we went back to the hotel for a pyjama 'party'.
Today was better, I still felt quite ill but we went to the London Aquarium which we all enjoyed (she threw a strop at breakfast but apologised later) but by the time we got home she'd managed to irritate all of us to the point where my best friend snapped at her. The thing is she's not trying to annoy people and in fact more often than not, she doesn't even realise that she is annoying them!
Am now really worried what she's going to be like on the morning of the wedding, as is my best friend. I honestly won't be able to cope if she's like she was last night - like I said, she stressed me out to the point where I felt physically sick, it was so bad I couldn't eat anything until this evening. My best friend says she's going to try and pin her down and keep her away from me, but I don't think it'll work!
What do I do?!?!
HELP ME!!!! lol

Is she one of your bm if not then tell everyone you only want your bms around you when your getting ready, but im sure you can sort it out before then xx

haha, I completely agree Ocean! She is my maid of honour, but may I point out that this is only because she assumed the position and pulled rank on my best friend, and mum specifically asked me not to rock the boat by saying anything. So she now thinks that she gets to help organise everyone and everything on the wedding morning. She's going to drive me round the bloody bend!

Anyway, to top all this off, I've decided I officially have the worst luck in the world! After having a spoiled hen party from feeling ill, I was really looking forward to going for our pre-wedding photo shoot this morning and....I woke up in the middle of the night with excruciating abdominal pains, sickness etc. so Adam took me straight to A&E. Long story short, we had to cancel the photoshoot, and after sending me straight to surgery to be checked out for appendicitis (which it turns out I didn't have), multiple doctors prodding and poking, blood tests and an x-ray later I was allowed home. How BLOODY ANNOYING!!!!!!

...and breathe!

Thanks :o) Yeah they just said that it was a particularly nasty bug that was causing inflammation - apparently it showed up on the x-ray but that I was right to go in because initially everything was pointing towards appendicitis which would have required immediate surgery.
Thankfully our photographers are very understanding and have offered to rearrange for us, but with only 2 free weekends left until the wedding I'm not even sure if we'll be able to get in! At least they've offered though :o)

xbox widow you have completely hit the nail on the head - i know i'm going to want to smack her on the wedding morning, she's going to get under my feet, annoy the hell out of me and just generally stress me out. Unfortunately she's getting ready in the same room as me, is insisting on lacing me into my dress and 'taking charge of everything' so I don't have to. I don't WANT her to, its MY wedding! aaargh!!! lol

yeah she just sticks her oar in all the time, esepcially when its not wanted. When my mum bought her outfit I went with her, and amy threw a strop because she wasn't invited (mum and I are teachers so we went in half term, amy was working) and then when mum showed her what she'd chosen she said it was 'ok, but not what I'd have chosen' - I happen to love what mum is wearing, and when I challenged amy and said what would she have picked instead she responded with, 'i don't know, but not THAT'. How rude! Then it was my dress fitting, and she wanted to book the day off work - why?! I said no, I didn't need her to go and she's not invited when I got for the final one either. Although she's insisting that she has to learn how to lace me into my dress as its her job on the wedding morning. I'm tempted to send her off to do something and get my mum to do it to be honest!

she is! she does this thing where she raises her eyebrows and purses her lips - that's when you need to prepare for the onslaught! haha!

Im sorry I know she is your sister but this is YOUR wedding!!!! Tell her straight that she is not helping you get ready and if she has any issues with her just raise your eyebrows and say " I'm the bride!! what I say goes!"
Dont give her the opportunity to spoil this day for you.

am sorry but no 1 wud assume they are moh at my weddin adn i wudnt of listended to my mum, its up 2 u to choose! and to spoil ur ehen do i wud of already had words, u shud of done ti straight away so u cud of enjoyed rets of ure nite x

She doesn't mean to annoy people? But she is and she's ruined your hen night!

sorry lows, that wasn't aimed at you! :o) My apologies for being snappy with my response yesterday, I really wasn't feeling well and certain blunt comments annoyed me. I appreciate the advice you ladies have given me, I really do :o)
I know she ruined it, but there's not much I can do about it now so that's why I won't mention it to her - trust me, I'd like to, but I know what'll happen. I love my sister because she is my sister, but I don't like her much - but that doesn't mean that I don't want to have a relationship with her and I think if I said something she'd probably take her bat and ball home and that'd be the end of us.
I think I've decided to say something to her before the wedding day, I really don't think I can cope with her getting stressed and stressing everyone else out too. Adam has already warned me to keep her away from him, he says its the last thing he's going to want or need on such an important, already stressful day!!