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    • SarahE4
      CommentAuthorSarahE4
      Posted: Aug 7th 2014
     
    I know this sounds ridiculous but my wedding is in September and I am already getting so nervous and jittery. Not because of the ceremony, new husband, people getting on or anything but I am convinced I am going to be ill in some way.

    Two years of hard work, daydreams, planning and fun would be wasted.I have never put so much effort into one day before and usually you can do whatever it is again at some point if you miss it due to illness.

    I know its so silly but has anyone else been so nervous about this that they use way too much alcohol gel,try to take a ton of supplements and randomly burst into tears whenever someone sneezes?

    There is a part of me that wants the wedding day to be here so all of the uncertainty is over,but being engaged has been the best time of my life and I know I will be sad when it is over. My fiancé and mum think I'm mad.

    Would just like to know its not just me. Im getting a cold now. I dont get ill very often, so I hope this is it.
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    • AmandaK74
      CommentAuthorAmandaK74
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 7th 2014
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    oh Sarah my wedding is 11 months away and im jittery now so I will probably be a wreck a few months before haha
    Im sure all will go to plan and you will have a great day, im slightly jealous, I wish ours was so close but I guess it will come around quick .
    good luck and keep us up to date x

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    engaged 2nd August 2013
    getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
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    • clair
      CommentAuthorclair
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 7th 2014
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    That's rubbish you are getting so nervous. But you really do need to relax! If you think you are going to be ill then you will be. A lot of illness is caused by you mentality. If you are stressed you will feel ill stress makes most people feel unwell e.g tummy ache/ head aches. The more you relax the less u will fell unwell I promise! Stop using hand gel all the time as tbh is won't make much of a difference any way. And supplements are a lode of rubbish too! Just eat rite get your 5 a day and you will be fine.
    Relax and all will be well :). Xx

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    • Scottishbride2016
      CommentAuthorScottishbride2016
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 7th 2014
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    You will both be fine . It's natural . I prob be the same in just over year and a half and it's my second time round lol x just enjoy if as it goes too quick x

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    • ElizabethF49
      CommentAuthorElizabethF49
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 7th 2014
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    Aww hun,

    I think we all get one thing that 'stresses' us out and this seems to be yours try not to worry and if you take the cold now hopefully that will be it out the way and you wont be ill on the big day :)

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    • WelshBrideBethan2015
      CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 7th 2014
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    Everyone has panic or stress as like you say it's been a big build up, just look after yourself and don't let yourself get run down . x

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    • Flossie
      CommentAuthorFlossie
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Aug 8th 2014
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    It has crossed my mind, but I would try not to stress about it too much otherwise you WILL make yourself ill! I know it's easier said than done, but try and relax a little and don't stress about it so much. xx

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    • AprilS61
      CommentAuthorAprilS61
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 9th 2014
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    I'm mostly worried about getting spots like the day before! Also that I'm going to be freezing in my dress as we're getting married in April and the weather could go either way (I'm that person who's Always cold even in summer!) Try not to worry too much and I'm sure it will run smoothly on the day! X

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