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    • Clarissaworksitout
      CommentAuthorClarissaworksitout
      Getting married in 2 months
      Posted: Nov 16th 2021
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    Back story…..
    Partner and I have been together 7 years. I’ve never been married. He had a big Indian wedding. Both of us have adult children in their 20s. He has been divorced 10 years. His ex wife remarried 5 years ago.
    My sons think he’s great. His son and daughter are not so keen on me I believe it’s because their mother always causes friction between us all.
    We (he) has decided on a day with just us and the 4 children. He said he will not ask his children until nearer the time (March 2022)
    Then he said they might be busy…..let’s just have my sons.
    Other than his children he has no family in UK. Brother, aunts, cousins remain in Europe.
    Is he embarrassed that he is marrying me?
    Is he worried his children and ex wife will get angry?
    I have tried to explain that I’d rather they all know if our plans so the unpleasantries are out of the way….I don’t want them so close to the wedding that I have rage on the day.
    Am I making too much of this???
    All comments are appreciated
 
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