Well everyone had a heart to heart with OH last night and we both came to the agreement that were postponing the wedding for a year, we're too stressed with having to move house and OH is terribly shy and doesn't want the wedding I was planning so we are going to go on holiday instead we book it last night and feel like a massive weight has been lifted! We're going to get married next year in august abroad with only our parents and siblings They'll have plenty of notice to save up to come too Feel so much better and this will be our first family holiday abroad :D Xx
CommentAuthorAprilS61
I'm sorry you've had to postpone :( moving alone is stressful enough without throwing wedding planning in there too. At least now you can start planning the wedding you both want, and in the sunshine - jealous!
Can you get your money back for the things you've already paid for? Xx
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CommentAuthorAmyH608
Ah no sorry to hear this....although sounds like you really have made the best decision for both of you :) and how fab to be able to plan a gorgeous wedding abroad :) very jealous lol! xx
CommentAuthorkatielea100
We've only paid £300 in deposits so it's not too bad to be honest, I'll keep my dress for the time being if I change my mind on it I'll get another n I can take one of my bms dresses back to the shop n keep my sisters as she'll be coming lol Keep OHs ring Just the matter of ringing and cancelling everything now Will start to look at places to go and get married after the holiday :D Xx
CommentAuthorAprilS61
That's not too bad then, as least it's not thousands!
You could even ask the reception when you get on holiday if they do weddings ;) where abouts are you going? Xx
Glad you feel like a weights been lifted - IMO I think you're making the right decision. And how exciting to look forward to a wedding abroad next year! xxx
CommentAuthorVelcro
sounds like it was the best thing to do/this is what you want. so enjoy your holiday and have a fab wedding abroad next year!
will miss you in the sept 14 thread tho ):
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
I'm glad you have made a decision you're both happy with and lifts all the stress. Wedding planning shouldn't be stressful, you should enjoy it and both really look forward to the big day xxx
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CommentAuthorkatielea100
Thanks everyone we know we made the right choice because I'm not upset I'm just really happy lol We're going Majorca on holiday but thinking Greece for the wedding :) xx
CommentAuthor*The NewMrsMalin*
I was going to say sorry for you having to postpone but I'm happy for you as you seem really relieved and happy. At least it is just the £300 you'll lose and not thousands. :)
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CommentAuthorBethanyS
Glad you feel better for it, sometimes it's for the best. X
CommentAuthorHayley Elizabeth
Sometimes it is for the best, i've postponed mine a couple of times but we're ready now, you have to go with your heart on this xx
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
I will miss you too like kel :-(
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CommentAuthorCatherineR
Sorry to hear that but sounds like a lovely alternative! Won't get hubby too stressed either :) xx
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CommentAuthorElizabethF49
Sounds like a great compromise and you seem so much happier x
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CommentAuthorkatielea100
Thanks everyone So much happier :) I hope your all enjoying planning and the ones who's big day is near have a great day I'll be taking a break from here for now but will be back later in the year needing your help again to plan my abroad wedding :) Xx
CommentAuthorDonnaH39
Sounds like you've done the right thing hun
A wedding abroad sounds gorgeous, we did consider it as well, but gave into the pressures of having more people there.
CommentAuthorSandyG83
sounds like the right thing for you both we did the same thing a month a go now i think it is because of the stress and its the best thing we have done we are best friends again now and i wont risk this feeling with him again for anything. xx
CommentAuthorBecky1608
I'm pleased that you're feeling happier and your new plans sound lovely!! Xxx
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12/11/2008 - When we decided to be more than friends
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CommentAuthorkatielea100
Feel even worse today! Had a look at weddings abroad and there's not a chance we can afford that and my mum definitely can't afford for her and my siblings either Humph! Too late now x
CommentAuthorLauraF89
Weddings abroad are significantly more expensive than uk wedding unless you pay for yourselves and let others pay for themselves. Can you not have a week away somewhere and wed with just parents then have a big party when you get back?
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CommentAuthorkatielea100
Nope because they can't afford to come And OH doesn't want a party that's one of the main reasons we're postponing xx
CommentAuthorBecky1608
Oh no hun!! How much more would it be compared to your original plans xxx
29/09/2008 - The Day we met
12/11/2008 - When we decided to be more than friends
04/11/2012 - A proposal in Central Park NYC
08/11/2014 - The day we say I do!
