I've been reading some posts and can see that lots of people are getting the blues after the wedding is over. I hope I'm not like this. Having planned and save for my wedding for two years and then its all over in a day, gutting. Anyone else think they may feel like this after?

I suspect that I may to suffer from this as well good tip dove :)

Set yourself a project or goal to work towards. Also plan romantic times with the husband. Even if it is breakfast in bed at the weekend or something.

You can do what I did, get so stressed out about the wedding that every time I think to myself "the day is over" I actually smile! Im pleased its over, no blues here :)

ahaha my h2b says what are you going to do after the wedding? ive been planning it for nearly 3.5 years lol

i had the wedding blues..which brought upon my depression to the surface!

i have the post wedding blues. 3 weeks after our wedding im typing this, left handed whilst soaking off the shellac and acrylics i had done for the wedding, even that makes me sad. i went back to work last week after short break away...(honeymoon is nxt yr hopefully) to have a reality check....straight back into trying to resit my practical exams, the usual work rubbish and being flat broke. this week seems even worse...stressful family stuff, even worse day at work on monday and now husband says he doesnt think we can afford honeymoon in the new yr, im gutted! y can i not just focus on the fact that i have awonderful husband and we had a beautiful day? im like this after christmas tho....i hate it when its all over. sorry for appauling typing....u need my right hand lol!! does anyone else feel the same?

we went to the lakes for 4 days which was lovely, i just miss it all so much, im so daft!

are you not married already nuttytart? just your ticker says you are! (quick go fix it! aha)

i think i will get the post wedding blues.. :( but i have a complete new start, new name, and new job. then we're going on honeymoon in december.

its going to be strange to actually have my weekends back... even though im sat here with nothing to do for the wedding, im still going to be thinking there is something to do, right up until the day!
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I dont know, at the moment I am kinda looking forward to having some of my wages to spend on food again lol. We have had to scrimp and save so much that the last year has been really tough. We cant afford to do anything and I know it will be worth it. However, with 2 weeks to go and after I pay all the last bits off I will have about £20 to my name. Cant wait to not have to worry about every penny I earn. Plus Ive had to put off a few gigs due to wedding stuff and our gigs start again after the honeymoon. I dont think I'll get post wedding blues but I will probably have lack of wedding planning blues lol. At the moment, I feel like I will be relieved instead of blue lol

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I'm hoping I won't get the blues, I'll be to busy baby making to get myself down.

I thought I would get the post wedding blues and to be honest not had a thing.....I am still off work at the mo though. Might kick in when I have to go back lol. Perhaps its down to the fact we were only planning our big day for 9 months and it didnt really take over too much? I would definitely recommend having something else to look forward to (like a big holiday or another event) though if you think you might be susceptible to it?

Awww sara, we share our anniversary xx

I am really looking forward to my wedding day, the planning has been quite hard work with making 4 bridesmaid dresses plus my own, then redesigning all 5 of them and re-making them.....so I probably wont miss the dressmaking part, I cant wait to finish them to be honest. but the other planning I am enjoying and I might miss that part, and also the actual wedding day.....I am so looking forward to that, and so afterwards....after the honeymoon and going back to work, and shopping and cooking....life will be somewhat of an anti-climax.