Wedding Forum - October 2015...

Carol glad your brother and his girlfriend are going to he wedding that's one stress off your head! And my wedding co ordinator should be more involved than that because then she doesn't love her job is she's causing money enjoy planning the wedding with the couple! And make them wait a few more days won't hurt them!

*SCREAMS* OMG My Wedding Dress is Amazing Its Perfect It's so Emerald green!! They will be adding in cups so no bra and They done the length of the dress today I've added a hoop to my dress so I can walk without all that lace on my legs!! making me a veil from scratch ad doing more diamontes onto the lace under my train and adding diamontes onto the bust also and onto my back!! My dress will be a corset dress to give me more shape and big boobs!! They will teach my bridesmaid how to lace it up and put me in my dress!! It's amazing it took my breath away My Dress is 1000% more beautiful than the white version of my dress!!

No Piccas till the Big Day as I want to keep My Wedding Dress A Suprise to you ladies!!

I Love My Dress All Hand Made By My Wedding Dress Lady She's Amazing and The Woman who work in My Bridal Shop are Amazing!! my next fitting 26th September 38days away!! Paid Off My Wedding Dress Today £2,395 for The Dress, Hoop and Veil Paid deposit a year ago now finally paid off!!

I didn't want to take it off and wanted to take My Dress Home with Me Its Pefection I finally Feel Like a Bride Now! It will reduce My Parents to tears when hey see Me First Time In My Wedding Dress on My Wedding Day

I hospital your dress fittings Go Perfectly Too and You Feel Like a Bride too Xxx

I cannot wait to wear my dress again I love it! I have been buzzing all day since my fitting! Exactly Racheal No One else will have My Weddint Dress Only Me The Only Dress In The World Just For Me Feel Like a Queen! Couldn't of asked for anymore it's perfect the dress maker has outdone herself I would recommend her to any women who is in London and is willing to travel to London for their wedding dress! Xxx

Forgot to say Paid my wedding cake off on Monday! Wedding dress on Tuesday

Need to go bank and get money out and put into envelopes for suppliers need to give my dad £550 for the hire of the mini van when he goes to collect the van which won't be for another 2months!

I've still got so much to do I'm going brideszilla now been nice up until now going to start freaking out
Still so much to do

Need to track down RSVPs n menu choices
Suits n shoes for my dad bros
Bestman & moh & bm still bits to do
Started typing up songs I like to play at Me wedding
Wedding presentation is complete

Just have to finish things off all the loose ends which are really getting to me and doing my nut in
My hubby seems to think we still have plenty of time when we don't!

Denied him sexxy time as he didn't do what I asked he will get the picture if he dies t fo what I say on the dot!!

It kind of worked carol and didn't! As he done one part gave into him!
And all your talk about sweeties makes me want to go to my favourite sweet shop and buy a load of them!
Families are buggy at the best of times mine is annoying me ATM need to get wedding bits done and no one is bothered makes me think why should I bother Xxx

Getting busy ladies. This has made me laugh mrsd2b which is just what I needed, if he has to got the hint yet he will do soon and you will get there nice deep death . 2 ks in a week is amazing carol a d the talk of sweets is making me hungry. So excited my mum a d moh are coming Dow tonight for wedding dress fitting and hair and make up trial tomorrow xxx

Wedding planner been in touch she missed out the order of services on the invoice, I also noticed that she missed out the petal basket for my flower girl! Now my brother and niece are coming have to tell her 2 more meals and 2 more chair sashes so some more expense to come. Need to find a nice poem to go on the back of the order of service, wanted the serenity prayer or footprints in the sand but J said that it is not really for weddings. x

Pleased your weekend went well Rachael I am still stuck at work but 96 hours and be waking up in J's arms and 2 weeks off :) xx

Mrs D that is terrible, I may get sort and to the point e mails, If I tell her something she usually replies noted at least it is a response, Today I asked what time the hairdresser is coming on the day and is it the hotel hairdresser they use, she replied straight away and said they will be there between 8am and 8.30am yikes, The ceremony is 11am, Poor J will be kicked out of the room very early haha x

48 hours to go and will be on that plane home! Oh boy cant wait, been tiring today as my client a little poorly but hopefully better tomorrow, spent day catching up on ironing and started to clean the oven, getting ready for home day! :) x

I still haven't heard nothing from my wedding co ordinator it is really ridiculous now when it gets to September and I still haven't heard anything I will be livid by then this is unacceptable
And Wnjt your time with J Carol Xxx

HI All

Sorry not been on here for the last week.
Mrs D I hope your wedding planner has been in touch by now, If not I would be screaming at her.
Been home a week now, was so tired for the first few days, been a while since I have felt this tired after a shift.
We have been to the wedding venue and spoken with the planners again. J now wants candles in the church, There was a wedding on while we were there and had sneak peek in the church they had the hearts with 30 candles in them and J loved them so another e mail to the planners and tell them. Had last dress fitting it is still a little snug but hopefully I wont put any weight on then next 6 weeks and it will be fine. Living on Salads and the odd meal out without pudding. Totally unheard of for me.

Was expecting a argument with J yesterday I managed to blurt out my previous partners name in a conversation felt like crap, he hasn't mentioned it but he probably heard it. Have done it a couple of times, Once I shouted it at J as diamond came out and instead of calling J called out previous partner tears and reassurances given then, My previous partner died over 3 years ago and was together for 24 years. J is very understanding and he knows I am crazy about him.

Yes next month we get married and if possible even more excited to the point I am probably driving J nuts haha x
Take care everyone and remember we are marrying our soul mates don't worry about the little stuff, You are getting married that's what counts xxx

Just ordered My Hen Sashes L Plates and garter and veil and badge!!
Already have My Outfit Frog Outfit Tutu skirt and leg warmers beads gloves

I wanted to go for Amazonian queen look before Or sprite fairy but changed to Me as a Frog coz of
My Jammy Frog!

Unless I change My Mind Before!
Thinking of going out for My Hen Night, Maybe Go Clubbing or Pub in the afternoon
I was going to go spa during the day think I will just get My Nails Done Mani Pedi and Get My Hair Done Instead

xxx

loving the idea of the frog idea mrs d (i got dressed as a bottle of tequila last weekend lol) that wedding planner best of been in touch by now!!!!!! how stressful was the table plan carol? Flamenco dancers sound amazing, have you got sangria to go with them??? thats a nice 2 week countdown with work and im very jealous of your 6 weeks off.

Picked the weding rings up today and i love them. Also had the final details meeting with the hotel and now just waiting for the bill. Its ok paying all the depoists its just when they want all the money at the end xx

My MOH is a godsend she has saved me! My careless hubby wiped the computer clean to install Wind0ws10 and he said he backed up everything but he didn't and I lost half of My Wedding Stationary Cue Meltdown and I was going to give up on this wedding thinking no one else cares but My MOH My Twinny I Call Her sent herself everything she done so she had a backup She also spa sit was my idea to So for once My Head was thinking straight!!
So I will download them and sort them out call up the stationary people and get the ball rolling without My Itinerary!! You don't want me to get started on what my MOH thinks of my wedding co ordinator!!

Lil personal info we had to have our 5yr old cat out down because of his heart murmur worsened into heart disease and pushed a giant clot out which unfortunately led to us putting him down he is no longer suffering but we are this was last Saturday and since then u have been pushing away my hubby being cold towards him not his fault mine. As I have him that kitten he was from my litter and I gave him the kitten a month before we became a couple and he was always a symbol of Our Love Our Relationship Our Commitment to eachother he was Our Fur Baby and having him out down feels like a omen to me making me doubt are we meant to be but then I should of felt that when my engagement ring broke in Uni buts it's now new and old as old stones and new metal and bodywork but that's didn't stop us! I Love My Hubby and My Son Our Family and I will push past this They are My Life My Forever Always For Eternity Lovers and They are keep me going They Make My Life Worth Living So Much to look forward too We Have A Bright future! I was doubting but I am no longer doubting I was doubting because I am numb and heartbroken from The Loss Of Our Smokey Will Never Forget Him will give him the Purrfect send off!
I Love My Hubby He Loves Me We Have Been through toght times before and we always pull through just need to keep the Candle Flame Lit and Take Care of it Nurture It I will always Love Him as he has accepted me for me and I have accepted him for the way he is and we Make Perfect children if I do say so myself *Bias Alert* He is My Bestfriend My Otherhalf My Soulmate He Has fixed My Broken heart putting it back together piece by piece and he and our family Our the last pieces to my puzzle heart and make me feel complete
Sorry for the Long rant needed too Xxx P.S Thankyou for reading

Thankyou RachaelB76 he's no longer in pain as you said and yes my MOH saved me Love her so much Twinny is my closest dearest friend Wife material Auntie to my son Xxx

Thankyou CarolH81 and In finding table plan hard as I have such a small wedding party and most do know eachother but i think it will be awkward as they may fill like they got lumped together I don't have that many tables either their big round tables can seat 10 on each table well they say max 8 so not to over squished.

My table plan cannot be complete don't know all my numbers yet and haven't got all my food orders in either if they don't reply in taking it as they are not coming and they are out!

Going to get Chris to make JPEG leafs (Im useless with photoshop can't use it to save my life I'm more PowerPoint word paint etc type of girl) and I will get it printed and think I will just wrote down their names in my own handwriting probs be cheaper and the table plan I will change that up too may keep how Twinny made it but instead get the leafs printed out and hand write names on it instead!

Is the table plan meant to be big and mounted?
I'm starting to feel I cant be bothered to have one atm

Waiting for a few more wedding things to be completed and sent to me hoping they look beautiful as it should tie in with me theme it may go on the cake table or with the gifts or sweet cart we shall see
hubby says I'm parcel made I have orders far to much stuff (Ooops)

Carol that is sweet to have your bil walking you down the aisle I think it shows the bond you still have with him and you know you can still rely on him as he helped you through the loss of your 1st husband Xxx

I thought you was married before I apologize Carol, I didn't know wow 24yrs together and he didn't want to get married that must of been difficult for you as you have alwYs wanted to get married. So you brother in law from your sisters husband helped you through the grieveing period that was very sweet of him and you must be so thankful towards him I think letting ion walk you down the aisle is lovely will mean so much to you =D
Me and my hubby say the same thins at the same time too it's amazing how you can be on the same level and think the same at the exact same time it's freaky! My oh Bestfriend says we always do it without realising =D

And this table plan is really annoying my MOH trying to help me sort it out but I'm still chasing people for RSVP and food options of they don't reply before 23rd they are not coming they've had far to much time to RSVP and give me menu options when they've known about my wedding since 2013!! So enough is enough I say

Still haven't heard from the wedding co ordinator I need to top up my phone and see if I can get hold of her and also need to get hold of stationary place and get my order in as waiting for her like waiting for Christmas Xxx

Oohh WoW it is crazy how things work out so if you never went back home to Spain you would never of met J yes that is deffinstley higher power workings putting you two together! I don't think it was a selfish move I think you went where your heart is and that is Spain so if your following your heart you will never steer wrong I say!
And I still haven't sorted out the stationary I hope it doesn't take to long as if I don't have replays back by 23rd that's it I will choose everything for whoever hasn't chosen and put down who I deffo know is coming to my wedding so it's time to put me foot down as u will order my stationary on the 24th I hope it doesn't take more than 4weeks as I won't really have a lot to print out a small wedding would be bigger if people didn't have work and uni then my wedding would have more family their but things work out in the end I will just say you missed out on one of the best days of my life on my wedding day I am disappointed about some people not coming and others have never really been that interested in my wedding just kept questioning the location why ain't you just having a registry office wedding etc A Few Simple Words
"My Wedding My Way" Alongs My Blood Family and Main Non Blood Family Their and My Day Goes Perfect or Should I Say The Four Day Wedding Weekend I Will Be In My Own Perfect Bubble Xxx

Yea meant to be! Book a table for 19 people they need to sort it out before the wedding!
Went suit shopping for my dad brothers and the best man and I came away with 4 suits apart from need to collect My Bros suit jacket as having to be ordered in be their in 10days then I shall collect it! All from M0$$ BR0$ good price too EHHHHHHHHH
Only need to get shoes for them and my bridesmaids and accessories!!
Got my dad to wear a black suit so he is matching my mum but his tie actually matches my theme I thought he would hate it as its so bold but he went for it they are now more excited for the wedding!
wedding getting closer and closer brisk finally choose their food options if people don't end up coming o well they missing out and Alongs my main family their I am ecstatic as they are my nearest and dearest Xxx

I left suits and dresses last for them to pick end of summer dresses and suits as that is what they wanted ya see
And still got bits to do need to perfect my speech as my dad won't do a speech hubby hasn't done his either!!
I'm getting things on track last min things keep pestering my bros and dad about shoes and same with my MOH n bm and any accessories they need to get! xxx
So much to do so little time I just hope my hubby gets more involved as I thought he would be more involved already by he seems to have his head in the house move even those my weddings came first and has been booked since 2014 makes me feel like he's not bothered and why should it go ahead when. Like no one cares think I'm having a blur day today so not my happy cherry self may be coming down with something Xxx

My nerves are kicking in I can't Sleep for Love nor Money! Instead I lay in the dark watching my son sleep it's doing my head in the past 2nights and I'm counting on more sleepless nights!
I cannot doodle about my wedding write about it complete bag of nerves however I can plan my next tattoo my hands feel useless like they've lost their purpose it's so weird! I've still got things to sort out and I need to get a move on I will have to kick my butt into gear from next Monday no more messing!


My list is smaller however so I'm doing ok!
Still feeling bleh but haven't come down with anything yet I hope I do before my wedding

Booking my pre wedding photoshoot with my photographer who done our free engagement shoot a Looking forward to that

I didn't think I would become a bag of nerves at all but it seems I am got me thinking I will be shaking up the aisle

I cannot dream about my wedding and it's doing my nut in it really is I cannot see anything my dress walking down the aisle the car ride Etc....

Need to send my engagement ring off to be cleaned shall do so after my pre wedding photoshoot shall wear my eternity band unless I find s replacement or find another ring to XxxxX

Wedding planner just replied told me not to panic as she works with the translator daily phew! I Hope!

J has asked me if I wanted a present on our wedding day or money to pay off my credit card, Errr present please haha! bless him! He loves buying me things but he never too sure what to get me! I have told him don't want to know till the wedding day what he has bought! I have got him a pocket watch plus he gets to unwrap me on our wedding night! HAHA! xx

Isn't your rehearsal early Rachael my reversal day before my wedding in the Thursday!

Busy sorting out wedding gift and shoes and accessories for wedding party!
Need to sort out nails and hair need to top up me phone and make calls or could go into these shops and making bookings!

And Carol most certainly unwrapping you on your wedding night! That's the sad thing pay all that money for the perfect wedding day and only get to be in your perfect wedding dress for a few hrs Xxx

i know its early a month before but im sure they tell you you dont need to remember anything hahah think its more to go through everything we have chosen and pay the money. Thats great thayt you get to wear your dress twice carol. Whats everyone going to do with ther dresses after the wedding? xx

If it rains in Gibraltar then I wont wear my wedding dress as really want it for the blessing as that is where all my friends and family will see it, There is only 6 of us in Gibraltar so just the legal side of it really! We are hoping to move next year to somewhere bit bigger at the moment we are staying at mine which is 1 bedroom apartment and J's is only a studio which he has up for sale, whether or not it sells who knows, We have that many clothes between us we are wanting 3 bedrooms so one can be turned into a dressing room and hoping it will be big enough so I can put my dress on a dressers mannequin and keep it on show!. other bedroom will be a study, No family staying we have agreed to that already, Lovely to see family when they come over to Spain but we like our space and as soon as we get home we tend to strip and wouldn't be able to do that with family around lol!.
Was asked today what day would be our anniversary, It will most probably be the 9th Oct but have told J that we need to have to celebrate 3 times in October, 1 for the day we get married, 1 for the blessing on 14th Oct and the day we got together on 27th Oct, don't expect presents for every day but at least a meal out!
Bought a jacket today for the evening of the blessing in case it gets chilly, Hopefully that will be the last thing I needed to get, but then have said that before x

Haha but it would mean me buying him presents as well!. Am now trying not to spend on my credit card as want to get it back down to zero and get some savings and then can look at leaving work in UK and look for work at home in Spain.
We were talking about wedding presents today, have told him we need to buy each other something so we have a keepsake from each other to keep forever. I have already got him a pocket watch. Had it a couple of months now, Knew if I didn't tell him to get me something he would feel rubbish on the day when I gave him his present. He said do we give the present on the morning or after etc, Poor thing not got a clue. With his 1st marriage they never bothered with gifts so had no idea.

Me n hubby have been buying presents for Valentine's Day our birthdays also for Our Engagement Anniversary Will be celebrating Our Wedding Anniversary which is also the date we got together won't be celebrating engagement anniversary from next year just wedding anniversary! I got hubby his last engagement anniversary present this year, and have got him his wedding present bet I don't get anything won't surprise me I think if I didn't remind him about anniversary gift I would of got nothing and he would feel guilty yes.

Carol if I had 3 dates I would celebrate all 3 and get 3 presents and cards! As it is legit you have 3 separate days to celebrate

Sorting out gifts for the family
Bros done
Have ordered mother dearest present
Talking to mother in law about hers need to order if she says yes!
Dad have no idea offered a watch and he said No I have 3 already! But if he likes the bros he will want one!

Need to get the men to try on their shoes if they fit

One week till my second Weddinn dress fitting!! Cannot wait to see if fitted and diamonted and my veil and underskirt!!

My guests have till next wed to RSVP and to tell me their food options Xxx