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    • MiriamF1
      CommentAuthorMiriamF1
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Apr 30th 2014
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    Is it normal to have really crazy nightmares about the wedding? We've still got a few months to go until our wedding, everything is planned and sorted and has been really fun, no stress at all, so I don't understand what is causing them. My family, bridesmaids and H2B have all been all great as well and its been a really relaxed fun process planning everything. Last night I dreamed we showed up at the church the morning of the wedding and vicar was doing another wedding told us we were at the wrong church and kicked us out, in another my H2B was absolutely hammered and snogging another girl when I showed up and couldn't figure out why I was so mad! Have had dreams where none of our outfits show up, my dress is nowhere to be found so I get married in shorts and tshirt, everyone ends up having a massive fight, you name it I've dreamt it. Its almost every night and is driving me mad...am I going crazy???
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    • CommentAuthorMrsManiatt
      Posted: Apr 30th 2014
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    Don't worry I had my first one the other day, I dreamt I was late, the shoes were uncomfy, church was practically empty etc. I guess its inevitable to have them, its just part of the wedding day nerves, especially if you are fine when you are awake, your stress may be coming out in your sleep. So don't stress, share them with your future hubby, he may be having some too! xxx
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    • clairenina
      CommentAuthorclairenina
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 1st 2014
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    I've had about 4 now. All wedding dress related
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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 1st 2014
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    I've had lots of wedding dreams, usually involving realising on the morning about things that haven't been done. The last one was flowers. Others have been being at the reception with absolutely no recollection of getting married. The most bizarre one was turning up at the church late to find that they had started without me. When the vicar ended the service I pointed out that we hadn't exchanged our vows, and she said "oh I don't need to hear them, I've spent enough time with you". Then for some reason there was a boat race at the side of the church.

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    • LauraK7
      CommentAuthorLauraK7
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 1st 2014
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    I think it's probably normal I haven't had any yet but no doubt I will I am a stresser
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    • MiriamF1
      CommentAuthorMiriamF1
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: May 4th 2014
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    he hasn't had any dreams lol just laughs at me when I tell him mine! They are pretty crazy...apparently I talk in my sleep when having them so he's usually laughing when I wake up and says what about this time!
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    • FitchMcCombe
      CommentAuthorFitchMcCombe
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: May 4th 2014
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    We've still well over a year, but I had a few of them when we first got engaged, and had several on the run up to my friend's wedding haha - was so delighted to see her stunning dress on the day as it was hideous in the dream lol
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    • MiriamF1
      CommentAuthorMiriamF1
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2014
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    had another mental one last night.....

    I arrived at the reception venue with my sister for some reason, didnt remember anything about the ceremony and asked her if my H2B had cried as I walked in. She said no but he had slapped me as I just stood there and didn't respond to anything.... She and I then went into a room and there were 12 flowergirls in there getting their hair done, I didn't recognise any of them or the hairdressers, who got up and left as soon as we walked in. My sister said that someone had decided to get us flowergirls and pay for all their dresses and flowers and hair as we were on a budget but they didn't tell anyone and all these kids just rocked up. Plus the hairdressers for them refused to do bridal party hair even though we were doing our own and were really rude to everyone and wanted to know what we were doing about feeding the flowergirls and them

    Then I woke up haha what on earth does all that craziness mean am I just going mad??????
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    • DonnaH39
      CommentAuthorDonnaH39
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2014
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    I had my first one a few days ago as well (I really hope I'm not going to have them up until the wedding)

    We went to the venue and they put us in two rooms, after the meal I realised my MIL was in the wrong room, when I told her she should have been on the top table she wouldn't talk to me but said it didn't matter, then I realised on the bus home (yes just normal public transport bus) that I was wearing a black bra under my dress and it showed, I was horrified and asked my mum if it was as obvious as I thought and she told me yes and that she wondered why I was wearing it, then all the photo's started going on facebook and I had black bra straps... oh and my fiancé told me he didn't like my dress as it was nothing special




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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 10th 2014
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    At least you know not to wear a black bra now.

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    • DonnaH39
      CommentAuthorDonnaH39
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 11th 2014
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    I was considering it lol




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    • Mrs W..2B..X
      CommentAuthorMrs W..2B..X
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Jun 25th 2014
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    haha I had my first wedding nightmare the other day 15 months before the wedding I dread to think how many more I will have. I was all ready then decided I hadn't seen myself yet and wanted to look in the mirror it was a bad idea because my dress was hideous I burst into tears lol. xx
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    • AprilS61
      CommentAuthorAprilS61
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 25th 2014
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    I have just over 9 months and had my first one last night. My dress went missing and I had no shoes, my braided aids had changed their dresses and wore two different l ex each and had odd shoes on! Registrar also wouldn't marry us as there was a problem and after 15 minutes I shouted at him and cried my eyes out and wanted to go home. Worst wedding ever ha

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    • Mrs T Hurley!
      CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jun 25th 2014
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    I have strange dreams anyway, so goodness knows what I'll be like closer to the time!!

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    • MelG3
      CommentAuthorMelG3
      Posted: Jun 26th 2014
     
    Crazy nightmare! I'm sure it won't happen. :)
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    • Mrs T Hurley!
      CommentAuthorMrs T Hurley!
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jun 26th 2014
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    Well, after my comment yesterday that I get strange dreams, I got a wedding related dream last night!

    I dreamt that I married my colleague and that my H2B was his best man! My tiara went missing, I wanted to dye my hair blonde 10 mins before the ceremony (I'm dark brunette!) And the cake came in black when I wanted white and yellow!

    I told both my colleague and H2B and they both found it hilarious! I didn't! I've never felt so guilty before!! Oh well!!

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    • VickyB70
      CommentAuthorVickyB70
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 27th 2014
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    Mine are getting more vivid now we are getting so close!! Such stoopid ones aswell! Me and h2b have a laugh about them in the mornings!! x
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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Jun 27th 2014
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    Last night I dreamt that my tiara was broken, and that I forgotten to tell the hair and make-up ladies that I was getting ready somewhere different so they didn't show.

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    • InDreamland
      CommentAuthorInDreamland
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Jun 28th 2014
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    It's totally normal. Our planning was relatively stress free, only a few irritations/arguements but nothing major but I had loads of crazy weird nightmares from about 12 months before our wedding. It's just natural to have some anxieties xx

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