Ok i don't know where to start with this...my h2b is Church of Ireland and im a Catholic! we were wanting to have it in my Church but not entirely sure how to go about it? can you have both a priest and minister at the service? can only one marry you? majorly confused! HELP! x
CommentAuthorpinkkirsty
i'm not 100% sure but i think u can get married in your church however if u have children u should have them christened church of ireland. Me and my fiancee arent very religious hes catholic and in church of england. A nd we arent getting married in a church we are having it in a hotel however my fiancees mum and all her side of the family are very religious catholics so we have said that if we have children we will have the children christened catholic. But im sure if your church allows it im sure you can get married there.Hope this helps
CommentAuthorMiss Nikki
Is he christened Church of Ireland or just practising? If he's not been christened there shoudn't be a problem but generally speaking one religion's church wont allow someone of a different religion to marry in it, however some priests are more relaxed than others. Make an appointment to see the Father at your Church to discuss it. We're getting married in the Catholic church, my fiance is Catholic but I've never been christened or baptised so they're quite happy for me to marry there as long as I regularly attend the services and go to classes that are designed to help me understand the religion I'm marrying in to.
CommentAuthorfarmerswife2b
oh goodness im screwed totally! my h2b is baptised as am i so i really dont know what to do now! x
CommentAuthorMiss Nikki
Your best bet is to make an appointment to see the Father of your Church and see what he says, he may be willing to do it, you can only ask!
I suggest you both go to the fathers of both your churches and see if you're both able to marry into each other's churches and find out any other hidden details.
CommentAuthorBinka
My h2b is Sikh and I am catholic. I had to apply for permision from Bishop I got it straight ahead. I heared that there was a marriage like yours done by 2 priests in catholic church they did it together. You can talk to your priest as far as I am aware it is possible
CommentAuthorGoff
2 priests would be cool! Like 2 drummers in a band!!
Why not speak to both priests - im not religious myself so im not sure how it all works. I used to go to church years ago though, and was quite involved with it believe it or not - i was the Rose Queen once!
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CommentAuthorcam
The wife goes to live with the husband when you marry. So really you should be going wherever he goes...
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CommentAuthorMrsSnedden2B
My mil2b and fil2b got married in a chaple and had a church off scotland minister there to bless the couple, i am sure it is that ur h2b may have to go to meeting with ur father, but contact ur father xx
CommentAuthorEcoFreak
From the CofE wedding site:
"I’m Church of England and he’s a Catholic. Does that matter?"
It doesn’t matter from the Church of England’s perspective. Anyone is welcome to be married in their local CofE parish church. (A complication would only arise if one of you has been married before.)
If one of you is a Roman Catholic and you want the Roman Catholic Church to recognise your marriage, you will need to seek the advice of your Roman Catholic priest about the permission required for marrying a non-Roman Catholic. Some vicars encourage couples in this situation to involve the Catholic priest in the marriage service too. See www . interchurchfamilies . org . uk for more information.
Maybe try that?xx
CommentAuthorFaeth
Do you both want something of your specific religion? If not, there are churches that are multi-faith - perhaps see if you could marry in one of those? I am an atheist, but I went to a funeral at a church that basically was for anyone with a faith of any kind, and actually it's the only religion-based place I actually appreciated as a non-believer. I thought it was lovely that they welcomed anyone with any kind of faith at all, and would do services to suit. I wish I could remember the name of the type of church it was..... This particular one was in Kendal.
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CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
I am Catholic and Martyn is Christian. I wanted to get married in a church but all the catholic churchs near us wont marry us. So i dont know if it will be different for you
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorKatya
Ok, as someone said you can have two officiants, however dependant on how strict they are they can refuse to conduct a joint ceremony if this happens you can marry in one and have a blessing in the other.
Failing that look into a humanist ceremony they are certified to marry for most religion and can therefore create a totally unique ceremony for you. This way you will be married in both religion at the same time.
Find out who you are & do it on purpose!
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
am church of england and h2b is roman catholic we are gettin married in his catholic church! all i need to take with me is my christening papers if not he has to do something but i been baptise so its ok! then we go to church and do the lessons x
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CommentAuthorFuture Mrs Doublé
I am catholic and religious, H2B was christened Church of England. We are allowed to get married in catholic Church and when we'll have children they will be christened catholic. H2B is not religious, but catholic rules accept this we'll just have to provide proof of Christian Christening. and we met the priest who is totally cool with all that.
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
Everything is now booked
Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
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lys why cant u get married in catholic church? me and h2b can and are x
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Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
