I got engaged over a year ago and asked 2 friends to be bridesmaids. I then had to choose between my best friend and sister for the maid of honor role. I chose my best friend but since then she hasn't stepped up to the role or been a good friend at all really. I've felt guilty ever since for not choosing my sister. I really want to ask my sister to be maid of honor too but feel like she might be upset that I am asking her now not then. My wedding is still a year away and I really want my sister to be my maid of honor as she's done more than my best friend. I feel annoyed that I asked them so far away from my wedding, is there a way I could ask my sister to be one too?
CommentAuthorCharlotteH3668
Yes absolutely, just say you've changed your mind and you've realised you need her by your side as your maid of honour as well.
I have asked my 3 bridesmaids and not chosen a MOH as I don't want to choose between them/ might regret making them the MOH nearer the time!
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
yes speak to your sister and be honest, tell her you realise you made a mistake in not asking her to begin with