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    • Ticamis2be
      CommentAuthorTicamis2be
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Nov 24th 2015
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    So I am super excited to get married of course but I seem to have lost all motivation! No idea why :( anyone else?
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    • StephH96
      CommentAuthorStephH96
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Nov 24th 2015
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    Maybe it's just the run up to Xmas? I know were not doing much until after then.
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    • Ticamis2be
      CommentAuthorTicamis2be
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    I hope so. Oh keeps asking me why I've stopped buying and talking etc, I have no answer to give x
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    • Emmilou82
      CommentAuthorEmmilou82
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    I do think it hits us all at one point.... I've felt it a couple of times and it's not that I wasn't interested in it, life just gets in the way.

    Like StephH says, maybe it's the run up to Xmas.....

    I'm sure it will come back. Have you got everything sorted?

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    • Glitterfairy
      CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
      Got married 8 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    It could be that it has got to the stage where most things are sorted out and there is nothing left to do apart from wait for deadlines nearer the time.

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    • Flossie
      CommentAuthorFlossie
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    I'm feeling a bit like that at the mo. Hoping it will come back lol.

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    • Ticamis2be
      CommentAuthorTicamis2be
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    Not really, have church, reception and dress sorted but there's so much more still needs doing. I've had all the bits here to make my invites for weeks now. I have the mock up done but just can't get round to making them :/ still have all the little bits to think about and I'm stressing about pageboys and flower girls. I have my ideas in my head but my ohs brother won't give us a definite answer to them coming so until they decide can't even think about dresses as without them it'll mess up my plans :/
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    • clairenina
      CommentAuthorclairenina
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    I think there are busy and quiet times with wedding planning, and there are also highs and lows. It's pretty normal I think. You'll get your mojo back x
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    • Elinor Claire
      CommentAuthorElinor Claire
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    I think sometimes being stressed about things can put us off. You still have time, maybe give yourself a break until after Christmas and focus on Christmas preparations instead. Then if something does pop into your head and you want to deal with it straight away you can give yourself permission to do it, but still leave everything else until after Christmas.

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    • StephanieM158
      CommentAuthorStephanieM158
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    I often wonder why I'm not stressing about it... :-/
    I do often wish we would have just gone away and got married on our own with the kids.
    I enjoying crafting and making my own things but I dont need everything to be absolutely perfect so I just sort of lose interest.
    Ive just had a birthday, my daughters was just two days ago, christmas is coming and I have my partners surprise 30th around the corner. (The 30th is killing me.... honestly ive never had to keep anything from him before...its just too hard) There always seems to be something else.... I totally know where you are coming From.

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    • KatieH
      CommentAuthorKatieH
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Nov 25th 2015
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    I lost motivation a little while ago but I'm starting to get it back again now. I think it probably happens to us all at some point during the planning process.

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    • Ticamis2be
      CommentAuthorTicamis2be
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Nov 26th 2015
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    Fingers crossed I can pick back up again soon!
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    • Zotastic
      CommentAuthorZotastic
      Got married 4 years ago
      Posted: Nov 27th 2015
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    You will get your mojo back soon just have a break from it, Xmas is coming up so enjoy that and have fun!
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    • KatieH
      CommentAuthorKatieH
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Dec 2nd 2015
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    I'm sure you will Ticamis2be :)

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