Wedding Forum - Just got the shock of my life...we're...

Ok so yeah, as the title suggests shock!! Excitement but shock!! Now I'm not sure what to do. Do we leave the date? Bring it forward? Push it back? Help!!xx

Oh wow congratulations! I would leave the date.. if you think you will be ok financially xx

I would leave the date, you will have had your baby and have time to get back into shape before the wedding :) When are you due exactly?

Congratulations :D How gorgeous will your little one look dressed up for the big day :)

Congratulations Hun xx

Congratulations! :) I would leave the date.

Congratulations!

I agree, keep the date if it doesn't effect your budget too much.

However just seen its two years not months. Still leave the date

Lol!! Thanks ladies ofcourse you Are all right, I have loads of time think I was just having a mini overload lol. Everything is pretty much paid for and if it's a girl how cute a flower girl would she make lol!!xx

She will look gorgeous as a little flower girl, but equally if your having a boy how adorable would he look in a little suit :)

Contgrats hun. It depends on how you feel. We have left it quite a while so our daughter will be nearly 4 so she will hopeful have some memories of it and understand what's going on and plus (this may sound selfish)i did not want to deal with a crying baby who wants to be fed or just wanted mummy, on my big day. At 4 she will have a kids entertainer, a bouncy castle, a play ground and of alot of friends and cousins to play with. My mum said that I was such a good baby but on the day of my aunty wedding I was 20 months I knew something was up and would I go to sleep? No. Did I want anyone but my mum? No.

Whovianbride2b thus is something to take into account. I mean, I'm so excited for our big day but I really don't want to be chained to a baby all day and I do want him/her to be able to understand what's going on and really take part, I'll see what the oh thinks....ps we to are whovians !xx

If everything is already booked and paid for I'd be wary of moving the date, you don't want to waste lots of money or lose suppliers

Lots of people get married with young babies, to be fair yours won't be young young anyway-about a year old :) I'm sure they'll be fine with a mixture of you, grand parents and your other family members :)

I have photographed a couple of weddings with young children, toddlers and babies and they were fine.

Firstly congratulations and you have plenty of time before the wedding and you will be back to your normal size in no time I'm currently 21wks +6days today 23wks tomoz and my wedding in about 8months my baby due End of May so I have some time to loose baby belly etc...
I wouldn't change your date just coz your pregnant your still the mum whether you sign wih your maiden name or your married name!! Baby will always be concieved out of wedlock and born out of wedlock!!
Plenty of time to get everything sorted if you change date honk of money implications loosing the deposit etc...
Get your head around being a mum Xxx

Congrats x

Congratulations!! I would say keep the date if you are ok financially, it will be lovely for you to have a little one there on your big day, especially when you can look back at the photos x

Thanks girls!! Spoken to the OH and we have agreed to keep our date xx

Congratulations! I would keep the date too x

I know eeeeepp!! Way too excited about everything lol xx