July is fast appraoching. Ive had devastating news today about our wedding cake, my friends sister has pulled out of making it for us, she has decided to book a holiday so cant make it, im so frustrated because i just haven't got the time to go looking around for someone else im so upset cant believe this has happened
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorGemmaB596
Oh my God, what a nightmare! Were you going for traditional wedding cake/fruit cake or a tiered sponge? And where abouts do you live? I only ask because if you're anywhere near me (London/Surrey way) I know of a few places that can do cakes at fairly short notice.
I'm starting to worry a little bit as well, as we are having our rings designed (as my engagement ring was a twisted band, so no shop bought wedding rings sat right with it) so I had to leave my engagement ring at the shop. They were meant to have the rings ready last week, but we have not heard anything and every time my OH has tried phoning up he can't get through to anybody! I was going to pop in at the weekend but the shop was already shut. Hopefully everything is okay but I can't help but keep expecting something to go wrong at some point!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Oh no. I dont know if it helps but im north east ul my cake maker delivers (all over for fuel charge) her prices r amazing im having 120 cupcakea in 3 dif flavours an extra 12 all different and a 2 tier cake with sugar flowers etc etc... less than 300
If not then maybe have a look at super markets and have someone decorate for u?? but im sure u cud arrange with a cake maker something last min?
Hope u get sorted!!
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Oh no Amanda. That sucks, they should not have done that to you, if they said they were going to do it, they should honour that, not leave you with 5 wild to go, to tell you there not doing it. That is stood, or they should have already phoned around a few places and found out some prices , availability etc to give you when she told you.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Agree with whovian she could of made some other arrangements or at least tried to help you do that. Not just dump u n thats it. Shockin
Today i paid final balance on food and a little extra to make sure h2b got his seafood platter lol also wine fully paid and they orderd it yesterday (as twice now the wine i pick has been discontinued ao they wana make sure we get wat we want this time lol)
Got remaining balances to pay on 3 things: room decos suits and dj all can be paid a few days before (but will be paid much sooner apart from dj he didnt want it any sooner than 29th july)
Just dress alterations.. flowergirls shoes and my sons shoes n trousers to buy :-)
Actually guna pay room decos this week then i can concentrate on saving for alterations!
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Been for my first fitting today, having a shoulder lift, and having the appliques added to side and back. Dress is right length, but under skirt and petticoats need to be shortened. Had a right time trying to work out how to bustle it with out ruining the effect at the back. So she's going to have a think.
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Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
Thanks ladies, im in south Yorkshire Gemma but thanks for your offer. Im going to see if I can sort something over the weekend, I have a few work colleagues who have recommended some other people so im going to try my luck with them, just hope I don't have to compromise so much on what I was wanting in regards to price. as a back up ive been looking at M&S
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Booked my hair trial for 18th june :-)
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
After having a mini panic attack due to checking my paper work and realising the payment for the registra should have been paid 4 weeks adagio . :S managed to get hold of them after and hour of trying. And is all paid now. Thank goodness.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Oh wow so glad u sorted it!!
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
gosh lucky you remembered when you did
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorWelshBrideBethan2015
Whovian lucky you remembered and got it sorted :)
Somehow always connected , finally became friends .
Friends became soul mates :)
Engaged 6th July 2013
<3 <3 Married my best friend 11/7/2015 <3 <3
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Yeah I know. Cars in for mot today, and I know the brakes need doing, hoping it does not cost to much. Oh needs it by Tuesday to use to go on his stag.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
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Boxes for the favours arrived
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together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
:-)
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
I have hit 8 weeks :-)
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
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My river song guard came through today, which we are going to use as our guest book.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
everything paid up only need to finish the name place cards and all is in order well apart from sorting a wedding cake, which i think ive managed to do. im starting to get very excited now cant wait for my hen weekend in 3 weeks
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Oh glad u got sorted with cake!
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Yeah I ordered alphabets stamps and a tardis stamp to make my name place cards today. Amanda.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Luckily i dont need place cards as its more of an evening reception we arent being served a meal just 2 different buffets. A small snack then a big hot n cold later
Im going to see new hair dresser today as had a disaster the other day. Red looks like it needs doing again and the blonde is yellowy silver shampoo has toned it a bit bt it was meant to be like really light bot brght lol :-/
So im nt happy n 8 weeks to go im wondering if theres nt enuff time to find someone else (cos i only planned on 1 more cut n colour rly cnt afford an extra 50quid either n it may also ruin my hair) :-(
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
oh no hope you get it sorted Gem, im sure there will be someone that is available, have you though about trying DIY colour, if you use a semi permanent it wont be so harsh on your hair plus they add conditioning. Im off out to find a local beautician, we have moved to a new area about 2 months ago and I haven't had the time to venture around. i want to book in for my brows, eyelashes and nails doing, possibly the day before the wedding.
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Visited a recomended salon i had 3 hair dressers round me rippin into my hair tellin me how bad it is lol!! Great :-/ oh n i didnt even say out they knew i was comin she said sit down let me.see
Shes told me to pop in monday to sort it all out at a bit of a discount she said its easy fixed but u wusnt think id just had it done.. also booked my trial in with her she even cancled a personal app she had(as shes going away for the weekend) so she cud fit me in as its my only free day that week... i instantly felt at ease as i walked in!
I will have to go to salon on the day for my hair -saves us £10 per person - only me n mam but i think £25 each is enuff and it gives us a break from the craziness of the house lol its 5 min away so not bad she sais itll take half an hr an hr max each (the last 1 said an hour-hr n half each)
Im feelin good :-) ill let u know monday what my hairs like lol..
Amanda i cnt recomend HD brows enuff but i suggest getting brows done a few days before if u r going for hd or tinting id give it a few days to calm.down mine r done tuesday i get married friday. Im getting individual volume lashes for the wedding (im trying them on tuesday i cnt wait i tred normal individuals and they werent very effective with makeup only noticed them without makeup on)
Im sure ull find someone :-) xx let us know how i get on sry for my waffling haha
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
wow they sound a very dedicated bunch of hairdressers, bless them. Glad you have managed to sort it, there is nothing worse than last minutes panics. I managed to find a lovely boutique, looked rather posh but the prices seem reasonable and its only a 5 minute walk away, ive booked in for HD brows doing on Thursday just to see how they are on me. Then ive booked in for my lashes, brows and nails doing the day before the wedding, but I might see if I can go earlier in week for the brows now, taking Gem`s advice, thanks Gem. I got my hair in two weeks cant wait to see how it will look.
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
If your trying them soon u can always say nxt time either darken them or tone them down :-) i love my hd brows.. just b careful exfoliating cleansing n toning does take the dye off them alot quicker so avoid brows when doing that lol x :-)
I know 8 weeks n i hate my hair its nt good blonde tricky to mess with really bt they assured me theyll sort it asap :-)
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Also 4-5 week reviews r worth it (any longer u probs end up payin full price again unless it was out of yours or the technicians control)
Mine r 23 to start then 13 a time. Just see how u go after this one. I always find a few days to calm.down is gd tho lol :-) x
CommentAuthorGemmaB596
Glad you got the registar sorted, Whovian, I can't imagine how stressful that must have been! I have to thank you for posting about that as well, as your post made me go through and check the dates I need to pay off all my suppliers - I nearly missed the car payment! Sorted for another couple of weeks until we have to part with more cash!
Glad you got your cake sorted, Amanda. We had a bit of an annoyance with our cake shop over the traditional wedding fruit cake. The shop we wanted to go to makes the most gorgeous sponge cakes with fresh cream, my OH, family and I are all obsessed with their cakes lol. We decided we wanted to have the cake to be split, one tier wedding fruit cake, one tier choc sponge and one tier vanilla so we were going for the cakes which are set on three different platforms, off centre from one another... got to the cake shop and the guy is telling me that fruit cake will not go nice with the icing I wanted, we would need the fresh cream covering it, I was like what?! Turns out their version of "fruit cake" is the sponge cake with the jam/jelly covered chopped fruit placed on top! Anyway, luckily I found that out before ordering it! Now we are having a three tier sponge (2 vanilla, 1 choc) and my aunt is doing the fruit cake (she had started a massive 4 tier one for her 50th wedding anniversary party, but that had to be cancelled as she wasn't too well so she is going to be finishing the biggest tier from that for us... apparently she has to have time to "feed" the cake?!) and will be matching the decorations to the cake we ordered from the shop. Then my partner's friend is making us a load of liqueur cupcakes, so our guests will have cake overload at our wedding!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Make sure photos r posted of hair!
i have mine on 18th i got a 3 quid veil from 3bay as shop cnt garantee 1 for me to use (just for placement lol)
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
50 days for me today. Oh goes on his stag on Tuesday.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
the days are going down so fast our wedding days will soon be upon us, I go for my 2nd dress fitting on thursday and im hoping it will fit perfect and be ready for me to take away
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
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Love my new hair! Wish i found these before thursday gone! Re cut red took 2 goes cos my hair didnt tske 1st one and blonde is lovely! So happy fewlin much better
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
MG, brilliant, glad you got it sorted.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Thx hun me2 :-) xx
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
it looks good, glad you got it sorted
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Thx. Good luck with dress fiting :-)
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
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I just got volume lashes on today absolutly love them!! Im gettin them for the wedding so thought id try them i had normal individual lashes last time and they werent as effective. Im lovin these tho!
Going to go a size up nxt time she put 8 9 and 10mm on but shes guna use 9 10 and 11 for the wedding :-) and try fill.them a bit more if she can
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Well my oh left for his stag yesterday. And dd had started being a right pain. She keeps on asking for her daddy. Is great breaking. Last time he went away she was still a little baby.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
aww so sweet that she misses her daddy, my OH stag is next weekend but he asked if he could put it back a week or so because a few of his friends don't get paid until the end of the month, this would mean him having it the weekend before the wedding which im not very happy about,I was hoping we would have the opportunity to go through last arrangements ect as we only really get to be together on a Saturday and Sunday and he always ends up with a 2 day hangover so im reluctant to agree with the changes, yet again I don't want his friends to let him down, im not sure what to do. it might seem selfish of me but I really need him to have clear head to help me out the week run up to the wedding day. Not sure what to do without upsetting anyone
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
I would let him go but say as its so close he needs to take i easy. Luckily my h2bs stah is the day after we r at a weddimg so he wont wanna drink too much lol and also hes been told he must be home as we have 2 kods im.nt doin it all on my own for yet anothet weekend when we r so busy (his is 18th we narry 32st so not too bsd bt he wudnt be home)
Just make sure he knows that week he needs a clear head so say either go out with whoever can or take it easy (and if he agreed i hope he means it!!) The week of our wedding is so hectic bt h2b doesnt drive so its all on me :-(
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
thanks that sounds like a fair compromise, even though I know he will over do it, he always does. (Light weight lol) I will discuss this with him and see what conclusion we come to. Dont know how we would cope as a family if we didn't both drive, so I sympathise with you on that saying that my OH hasn't really contributed to the wedding planning much at all
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Hopefully he says he will go.the weekend already planned lol... yea its a bit of a nightmare! Specially as hes the 1 who works (25+ mile away) and if his lift isnt in hes stuck at his mams away from us
Nm lol xx he hasnt been involved in much plannin either tbh ive tried as the wedding is NOT what i wanted so rly he shud of gave me more insight into what it is he wanted. Its been guess work ans tryna keep every1 else happy and made myself miserable in the process lol
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Just spoke to church florist and my flowers r sorted now... ivorys creams and to include peach carnations (they were my grandas favourite)
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
aww they sound lovely Gem
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Been up to take my cake topper to my cake people today. , given my final numbers to my venue, so just waiting for a email to tell me what the final cost will be.
Had a great night last night. My baby mummy's threw me a mini hen do. And made me a dress out of loo roll. Got me a little veil and L plates and beer googles.
And did naughty games
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorMidgetGem89
Lol sounds fun :-) my hen is just a small meal out bt im gutted my bridesmaid cant make it :'( its nt till 11th july (amandas wedding!)
Havin a girly night this weekend tho at mams for bridesmaids hair and makeup trials so will make it for it then wine n pizza :-) i have favour boxs to put together this is my only free time i can do it!
Ive booked russian volume lashes (they r fuller than what i have in the picture) they look quite natural atm as if i was wearing mascara so i want a bit more of a fuller look. Cnt wait for them 28th july lol x along with my pedi (and regular hd brow review)
CommentAuthorAmandaK74
my dress was a perfect fit and now safely hanging in my sisters spare room, it was hard to let it out of my sight, im super excited today
met 11th December 2010
engaged 2nd August 2013
getting married to the love of my life 11th july 2015
CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Thats great Amanda. I'm going to try and call my Seemstress tomorrow, to see if the designers have been in touch with advice on how is best to bustle my dress.
Met June 2009 on my Birthday,Met again July 2009 and got
together, May 2010 Moved in,Jan 2011 got pregnant,
August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
Dec 2011 Got engaged, July 2015 Getting married! Yay!
CommentAuthorInDreamland
It's so close now ladies! Next month! Excited?
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorInDreamland
MG those lashes look amazing!
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!