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    • rachymoo
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Apr 15th 2014
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    Anyone else starting to struggle with stress/worry? I swore I’d never be one of those panicking worried sick bride-to-bes but WOW I am awful at the moment! To be fair it’s not just the wedding, there’s other stuff too – we’ve had problems with the bank closing our account for no reason and all our direct debits being cancelled (all of our bills, car insurance, the lot!) and cancelling the overdraft so that’s been a massive stress. But then that kind of impacts on the wedding too because money is a bit more of a worry now and we’re getting so close. I think it’s just all little things – waiting for the kids passports to arrive, waiting for our legal documents to arrive in Greece (without them we can’t get married), all the last few bits that need sorting/buying – it’s just all mounted up and I ended up having a bit of a meltdown at the weekend! Just couldn’t stop crying etc! It makes me a bit sad because I want to be enjoying the excitement that is supposed to come with all this, but at the moment every time someone asks me about the wedding I just feel sick. I’ve been losing weight for the wedding and lost quite a bit, I’ve found it’s come off really easily the last few weeks and I really think it’s all the stress! It’s my hen do next weekend and I want to enjoy and it feel excited about the wedding but I just feel constantly sick and panicky at the moment. Please tell me I’m not the only one?! xx
    • Velcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Apr 15th 2014
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    mine was almost completely cancellled this weekend after a massive kick off, actually did cancel a couple of things (which i have no un-cancelled) i was SO sick of the crap and the interfering...!!! ive still got 5 months to i dread to think what other meltdowns are gunna crop up!

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    • RachelE118
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Apr 15th 2014
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    Omg no it's not just you!!! As if my life wasn't complicated enough my florist cancelled on me today!!!
    • Ana40
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Apr 16th 2014
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    It's certainly not just you, ive found it fairly stressful at times too. X

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    • CommentAuthorFranM76
      Posted: Apr 16th 2014
    Ive had a meltdown too. I couldn't eat for a week and kept bursting into tears. Didn't think the wedding had anything to do with it but with hindsight, once I'd got my dress sorted and a niggling insecurity out in the open I feel back to my normal self and am looking forward to the wedding again. I think it's pretty normal hun after all its one of the biggest events of your life xx
    • EmmaP
      Posted: Aug 11th 2014
    I'm a massive worrier, always beating myself up! It's completely natural to feel how you're feeling. I am!
    • VictoriaL46
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 11th 2014
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    I naturally worry, not had any meltdowns yet but of course with a year to go there is still plenty of time so watch this space.

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