Have just started planning our wedding and my father has said he will match what we save for the wedding. does anybody no how much i am looking at spending for the entiere thing? how much have you spent? xx
CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
depends on what u want we are having a church wedding and our venue is ours for the day they only do one wedding a day, so there will only be us there, wedding breakfast for 50 and evening buffet for 250, and ours in coming in at about £11,000 xx
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CommentAuthorspooney24
As fairytale has said it depends what you want to have for your wedding. If you have look at a couple of recent posts about how much people have spent on their wedding that will give you a fair idea of the differences in everyones budgets. It may be an idea to ask your father how much he was thinking of offering so that you have a guide to how much to save. x
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CommentAuthorAbs
thats not to bad actualy, thanks xx
CommentAuthorspooney24
The recent posts are "How much are you spending on your wedding??" and "wedding costs". x
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I think I'm going to come in at just under £10K BUT we're getting all our flowers as a gift, hugely discounted entertainment and the venue is free (we just have to pay for the marquee). That also doesn't include out honeymoon!
CommentAuthorDiana89
Average UK wedding cost is apparently 20k but there're people on this site having fantastic weddings for like 3 to 5 thousand, it depends on what you want from the day, start looking now at what you want and how much that is, if you start early you've got a chance of booking venues etc at prices for this year not two years (just make sure you get a written contract that prices wont inflate)
CommentAuthorvicz2000
Oh My!!! We have a budget of £4000 lol
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CommentAuthormomari
ours IS £2OOO
CommentAuthorlou
it depends if youre going to do most of it urself and get famile members invovled that will cut the costs no end and shop about hun x
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Depends lots of brides calculate their wedding budget to include honeymoon too. So also depends on where you want to go for a honeymoon. Our wedding budget has changed time after time. Yours will most likey so like other brides have said its a good idea to ask your dad how much he would roughly pay for and also to look at the forum threads regarding budgets.
As it stands at the mo we are having a church wedding + wedding breakfast, disco and evening reception at a local 4 star hotel....this generally comes in at around £4,000 Our honeymoon is actually costing more than the wedding as we decided to have a dream holiday/honeymoon with our 2 kids in mind. xx
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CommentAuthorfuturemrsstockwin
think about putting your honeymoon in your budget too we have only just thought about it and our budget went from £25,000 to over £30,000. i would start looking around at diffrnt venues before you decide your budget x x x
CommentAuthorKesha
You wedding budget comes from what you can afford vs what you want. Our budgets are very different because we can afford different amounts, but the longer your on here, you will see we all have similar things e.g. venues, flowers, cars etc but they all cost different amounts. I think you should sit down and look at how much you can afford to save each month and how long you have to save. e.g save £100 for 12 months gives you £1200, your dad matches it meaning you have a £2400 budget for your wedding. Until you know what your working with, you wont know what you need to look for and how much you can afford to spend on each thing.
CommentAuthorDaffy
It depends what you want, best hing to do is get quotes from peole and then work it out from there x
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CommentAuthorTinsel
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I would start by working out what you can save each month like Kesha said. This will give you a good idea on what your total budget could be. Then look at what you want on the internet, and whether that can fit into your budget :o)
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CommentAuthorNHR115
I have to repeat what everyone else is saying hun, it depends on what you want and what you're willing to pay for things. xxx
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We are saving £100 per week out of my wages...and we set a budget of 10k :0)
CommentAuthorPuddleduck87
Ours is £3000. BUT I am stuggling at the mo to keep it under budget. :(
CommentAuthorshellay
we will probably have sent about £7000 in the end but my dress is nearly £1000, we are only having an evening buffet though so if you are planning a sit down meal in the day it will obviously work out more, and our bridesmaids are buying their own dresses x
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CommentAuthorKerrylou
Our budget is £5000 and so far we're on track :) We've got family helping out loads though. Really does depend on what you want and how much you're willing to pay for it xxx
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CommentAuthorJay
if its any help ill try and break down mines as best as i can.our wedding reception for 80 is costing £4500 (thats a package deal in a 4 * hotel though, includes flowers and centerpieces, red carpet on arrival, welcome drinks and canapes, 3 course meal with 1/2 bottle of wine per person, toast drinks, evening buffet of bacon rolls, chair covers and ties, cake stand and knife, printed table plan and menus, placecards, DJ, menu and wine tasting for the bride and groom and complementary stay for the bride and groom in the honeymoon suite- the the hotel is LUSH!) family friend is doing flowers so free, dads gf is paying for the cake as a gift. photographer is £500, bagpiper is £165, Church is absolutely gorgeous and thats costing £250, limo to take me and BM's to the church and then me and hubby to reception is costing £250. wedding banns were £69. invites cost £50, dress cost £250 + £150 dry cleaning(bought it off ebay with veil and hoop skirt) my sis is buying my jewellery, the bridemaid dresses cost £80 for 3 alfred angelo ones off ebay, the flower girl that matched cost £10, flowergirl accessories came to £20, pageboy outfit came in at £35, groomsmen kilt hire plus groom was £275, cravats cost £20. hair and make up on the day =£70, trial = £45, extras = about £200. so in total weve spent about erm... £6939 ish and weve asked for donations towards our honeymoon for wedding gifts x