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    • NicoleW665
      CommentAuthorNicoleW665
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jul 14th 2017
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    hi everyone, me again! sorry for all the posts now i'm getting closer aha

    we sent our invites out just over a month ago with a date of 10th july for RSVP's. That's now been and gone and i'm just wondering how long you would/should wait before you start to chase people x

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    • LynseyH10
      CommentAuthorLynseyH10
      Got married 35 months ago
      Posted: Jul 14th 2017
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    I think it's personally acceptable to start chasing now. You have given anyone who hasn't RSVP an extra four days.
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    • StaceyH989
      CommentAuthorStaceyH989
      Got married 33 months ago
      Posted: Jul 14th 2017
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    I'd maybe leave it a week then start chasing
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    • NicoleW665
      CommentAuthorNicoleW665
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jul 14th 2017
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    that's what i'm thinking, i think i'll give it the weekend and that give people a prod :) thnaks x

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    • KathleenO17
      CommentAuthorKathleenO17
      Got married 33 months ago
      Posted: Jul 14th 2017
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    I'd probably wait a week and then chase although depends who they are your waiting from x
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    • Wundatigga
      CommentAuthorWundatigga
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jul 14th 2017
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    If you've lots to chase then I'd get cracking - if it's just one or two, give them a few days.

    I personally gave the few I hadn't heard from a little nudge a week before the date I'd requested them, which meant I had them all in on time - mostly because I had a meeting with the venue a few days after our RSVP date and had to give them final numbers and food orders.

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    • Emily17
      CommentAuthorEmily17
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jul 14th 2017
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    I would chase now.i chased all of mine with a month to the rsvp date

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    • NicoleW665
      CommentAuthorNicoleW665
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Jul 17th 2017
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    i'll get chasing then! thanks everyone :) x

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