I've just looked at my paperwork from the registry office from when we gave notice and have seen that the due date for the remaining balance was June 1st. I'm sure when she was talking to us she said July 1st.
I'm now all in a panic as I can not get through to them. I've sent email and left voice messages. Worried our wedding will be cancelled.
Has anyone else ever done this
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
1 stop panicking 2 can you go there in person today ? 3 how would you pay ? can you do it now ?
I agree with Lala, if you can get the money to them asap then i'm sure it will be ok. I am sure you are not the first and wont be the last.
breathe :)
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CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
I phoned them to pay over the phone I've had the money for them for ages and had planned to pay it at our ceremony planning meeting.
As they are not answering their phone or replying to my voicemail/email their is not much I can do as its in a totally different town to whereI live and I don't drive.
Also I'm at work tomorrow and won't be able to have my phone on me to keep trying them or receive their call back. They are always impossible to get through to not once have I managed to get through I always have to wait for them to phone me back.
CommentAuthorFlossie
I'm sure it will be fine! I would expect they issue warnings or send chase up letters etc. if they're likely to cancel xx
In just so annoyed with myself and with the lady we gave notice with as she said to have our ceremony planning meeting in June and to pay the balance then.
I know it will probably be ok but I have got myself so worked up about it my heart is doing its stupid irregular beat which happens when I get anxious/stressed ;( x
CommentAuthorFlossie
It's normal to be worried, if any one of us said we wouldn't be worried then we would be lying! Everything will be ok though :) xx
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18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorEmily17
if she said to pay the balance at the meeting then maybe she has made special arrangements because the dates are so close.
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He proposed Jan 2014
Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
CommentAuthorMyranny
Don't worry, my friend did this, she forgot for like a week. Then when she rang them, just like you, they didn't answer or return her calls. She got through like 10 days later, was at the point of having a coronary I swear, and when she finally managed to get hold of them they hadn't even noticed and her wedding date was DEFINITELY not cancelled. She sent the payment and she gets married in 4 weeks. :) xx
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Thanks ladies.
RESOLVED :) :)
Phew I tried not to panic but all these things flashed through my mind argh. Lady laughed when she phoned back and I told her I was having a panic attack lol. She said about one person a week does it!
CommentAuthorFlossie
Glad to hear everything is sorted and all okay! xx
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18th June 2016
xx
CommentAuthorJEm1905
Yikes that could of got interesting! Glad you managed to sort it and that she totally understood and wasn't surprised either :) x
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
I'm kind glad for this post, thought pig I will check when mine needs to be paid, thinking it was 6 weeks before, but no its 12 weeks before I'm on 8 now. Queue panic. So stressed. Desperately trying to get through, but no answer
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CommentAuthorEmily17
So glad its all sorted!
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He proposed Jan 2014
Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
CommentAuthorFlossie
It will get sorted Whovian! xx
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18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Phew, managed to get hold of them, all paid and sorted. I'm definetly getting married.
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August 2011 Got our own place, 2011 Had our Baby Girl,
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CommentAuthorFlossie
*Note to self - triple check the balance date for registrar!!!
Happily married
18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorEmily17
haha flossie!
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He proposed Jan 2014
Will become Mrs P 7th October 2017
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
I was told it had to be paid 3weeks prior, it was later than that
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorclair
Glad to hear it :). We missed our payment date too! I was sure it was the 21st may but it was actually the 1st of may lol! When I rang she said don't panic, we hadn't given notice then so she said just pay when we give notice she was really nice about it :). We have done it all now. Xx
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CommentAuthormichgib
Glad it's sorted
CommentAuthorAprilS61
I'm sure lots of people do the very same! Not to worry, you're all paid now :) enjoy the rest! X
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CommentAuthorRachaelB76
glad you got it all sorted i would of completely panicked x
CommentAuthorKayleighS46
I've got a separate calendar with all the payments needed and the dates etc but even then I forget to look at it lol!! Glad its all sorted - you'll most probably see me doing a post like this next year haha!! xx
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CommentAuthorFlossie
I've got all the due dates on my wedding spreadsheet but I think I'll definitely be double and triple checking them nearer the time lol. My hope is to get the suppliers paid off as early as possibly anyway so hopefully it will be irrelevant!! xx
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18th June 2016
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CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
Thanks ladies I had the date wrote in the calander diary and to do list as 1st July! Mind you I will point out that the ladies writing was awful lol.
I have now triple checked all my other dates as I have the money just sitting there for the different things so its not like u can't afford to pay it till last minute! X
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
If you have the money sat there, I'd be tempted to just pay it all off now, then no more worries.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorthefuture:Mrs_Hurren
I can't pay my venue until they have final numbers they don't allow it otherwise I would
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Glad you got this sorted out okay.
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CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Ahhh I see, thought you meant other stuff, it was a huge relief when I paid off the venue.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorMrsThomson2B
glad its sorted cant believe she didnt ccall back right away though x