right as some of u know i was having problems with my MOH ie went for my dress measrument and she told me that she couldnt come as she went out the night before and got drunk so wasnt in a fit state, she hasnt done anything for my wedding apart from stress me out, we sorted it so she wasnt MOH any more fine. well i ranted to a friend of mine about it as was really pissed off and she has been told that i was slagging her off, been arguing all day in text messages. for example i said "I NEVER SAID TO THAT SHE COULDNT COME THATS HER CHOICE, AND AS FOR YOUR DAUGHTER BEING MORE IMPORTANT THAN MY WEDDING I KNOW THAT I AM NOT AN IDIOT, BUT U DIDNT HAVE HER WHEN I TEXT U AND U SAID THAT U WHERE PISSED SO COULDNT COME IN THE MORNING AS PROB WOULNT B UP OR IN A FIT STATE "
she then said "I WAS ALREADY DRINKINH WHEN U ASKED, AND U DIDNT SAY U WHERE DEFO GOING THAT DAY TILL NIGHT B4 WHAT AM I SUPPOSED 2 KEEP EVERY WEEKEND FREE JUST INCASE. I HAVE MY OWN PROBS AT MO AND I CANT EVEN TALK TO U ABOUT THEM COZ WITH U AT MO ITS ALL ABOUT THE WEDDING AND U DONT HAVE TIME 4 ANYTHING ELSE"
it has been going on like this all day, i have now found out that the reason what is said came out was coz my mate that i told was defending me as my mate!!!! was slagging me and my wedding off to this girl, and she had the fucking nerve to have a full blown go at me for talking about her when she let me down, i am so fucking angry i dont know what to do with myself !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
CommentAuthormrs linda greer 21/8
tell them to get stuffed they cant treat you like that and if they were REAL friends they wouldnt be doing it i would just say if thats your attuide then you can feck off i dont need the stress, it seems as tho she`s doing what she can so she doesnt need to be bridesmaid/MOH, of course your gonna talk about the wedding its naturel but im sure if she came to you and look can we have a chat i need help with my probs/i need to get it of my chest then im sure you would be there in a shot for her hope you get it sorted whatever you do hun xx
CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
she really has no right talking to you like that hun,just be glad your rid of her if thats the attitude shes going to take,,,what im going to say next i dont want to offend you but trust me as i know all to well what its like to be cought up in all the drama of planning a wedding,and yes it does become the main focus for us brides to be,BUT we must remember that our friends count to,after the wedding when theres nothing left to do they will still be there,i guess what im trying to say is,maybe take some time out,1-2 days a week without wedding preps just for you and your friends x~x~x
CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
i know what u mean tiggs, it just annoys me as i can count on one hand how many times she has been round to see me, and it is always when everybody else is busy. i am the one that makes an effort to go and see her which she cant see either x
cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
CommentAuthorfester
My Mum warned me that this is when people fall out at wedding preperations, been having a rant at everyone tonight too about a similar situation, all getting too much and i'm soooooo fed up with everyone, I just think people like this aren't welcome to be involved!
