Wedding Forum - H2B dragging his heels!...

Aww, hun - I can empathise. If he, like my other half, has left most of it to you, then he probably doesn't realise just exactly what needs to be done/has been done, and, how important it is to get things sorted early on!
My OH was messing about when we were doing invites - so I had to repeatedly ask him to find addresses for people - consequently there are 3 evening invites for his friends that are sat by his pc with stamps, not sent - and the RSVP date has already passed.

Whilst we were making them, he was messing with playing games, you tube videos etc - I had to say to him "if it seems like I'm getting annoyed, its because this is important to get them sent out to our guests so that people actually come to the wedding.
And what do you think I've been doing every lunchtime this week..? Sorting these out" so then he knuckled down and helped.

And not wishing to generalise, but that does seem to be a recurring theme on this forum - men just don't see what the 'rush' is! Do they think that suit hirers have an endless supply of suits that they can roll out, or does he realise they might not have the sizes/styles they want for your date as someone else will have booked them up?

It does seem unfair that he is spending so much time sorting out one aspect of the wedding, and not giving you chance to even go and spend some time just for yourself, not for the wedding, looking after kids, or your study.

Perhaps ask him how he'd feel if the shoe was on the other foot? xx

He does think there is an endless supply and they should be begging for his business. He tried some really expensive ones and said ill leave it they will come back to me and reduce the prices if they want my business. Not in july they wont!!!! Now hes saying that he will just reserve the suits he saw last time they went looking instead of going today. I wouldnt mind if they had plenty appointments but he was gone 14 hours and had two appointments so they rest of that time they were just drinking and he wanted to do the same again. Why cant they have a few beers and come home at a decent time? They see eachother at least 2/3 times a month and speak everyday. I see my mates once a month and its a different person each time!

I completely agree with Lala.
You could go the passive aggresive route and just start baking the cake yourself (badly) and when he sees how upset you are at the result he'll get stuck into the next one.
If he's just going to reserve the first suits then there's no reason why he needs to go out again today with his friend, so maybe today could be your day to yourself. I would even hand them some beers, some juice for the little one, and cake ingredients, say I'm going out and then just leave them all to it. Hit the shops and see if there's anything you can cross off your to-do list in town, hit the gym, have a mani/massage, call an old friend and have a long catch up then wander back home and enjoy the practice cake.
I went with a slightly different approach to the suits - OH was dragging his heels too so in January I had a look at suits and then put down a deposit and just told OH that's where we're getting the suits from, here's the contact info, go and try on in your own time.

That sucks; I agree with Carla and hope it works out ok for you :S Men can be so useless sometimes.

if you man is saying "is its your day hunny all I have to do is turn up" then take them at their word ... stop asking them about things , book what YOU want . why stress your self out ?