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    • Becci93
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    Haha oops mmw2b! Bet he feels silly at least it's sorted though.

    Just got back from the field with ozzy. He misbehaved having only being there 5 minutes .. Rang off the field onto the pavement next to the road in the cul de sac as his favourite dogs had arrived but he was just running rings around them for nearly 5 minutes while they were on their leads. So embarrassing.

    Was good as gold once he was on the field though. The trainer finds that he has to put the vibrating collar on him to calm him down but doesn't need to make it vibrate just the fact he has it on he knows the behave.. Little turd




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    • Mrs M Wade
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    Oh dear Becci.

    Tried to have a snooze on settee earlier but no chance with LO running around. OH snoring on the settee.

    Going to out dinner on soon

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    • InDreamland
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    Yay! Chores all done!

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    • InDreamland
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    Think I'll do a little more wrapping up to pop under our tree.

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    • Becci93
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    Oh has just said mum went past earlier in a n0t3 which therefore means she's bought the qa$hqa1 .. I knew that she must've bought it as she didn't tell me how the test drive went so was probably hoping to surprise me when I go round tonight by having the n1$$an on the drive. She'll have it a few days before Christmas




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    • MichelleC961
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    Lol thought that's what she round choose too becci - seemed too much of a bargain not too :-)

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    • MichelleC961
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    Did u and OH sort everything out or is he still a lazy so and do who expects you to do everything?

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    • Becci93
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    This is true Michelle however the Korean cars do drive a lot smoother than the japenese one so for the £1000 more I thought she may have been tempted .. The qa$hqa1s improved since I drove them at work too so they must've bridged the gap.

    He's still lazy, I tidied again yesterday then last night I was thinking of things we could do on our honeymoon so one I alreasy definitely want to do is swim with dolphins which he won't do because he doesn't like fish swimming near his feet.

    Then mum and dad said the zip lines in Mexico are amazing I don't like heights but neither does mum and she said she enjoyed it so I suggested that and e won't do thy because he's scared of heights. This is going to the worst honeymoon in the history of man! Boring so and so.

    Then today I said we needed to nip to m and b for a few bits and he was like no we don't blah blah and it was the usual resistance I get any time I suggest we do something to get out the house.

    Then I said right we'll take the dog to the field he said you can I'll stay here and do the washing I said I already did that so he said well I'll just tidy up .. Again which I did yesterday. I've never known someone so lack lustre .. How can anybody just want to wittle their days away inside the same 4 walls




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    • MichelleC961
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    Omg I woukd have kicked him out if it was me- sounds like such a boring so and so who doesn't do anything-! What does he actually do?

    Have you asked him what he might want to do on honeymoon? How did you even get him to agree where to go if he doesn't like the sun- has he been abroad before? Lol

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    • Becci93
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    Good question Michelle.

    Everything we do is on his terms only thing he likes to do is f1, karting and watch the rugby. I compromised and went to the f1 with him, can't go karting due to my back and I hate the rugby and it makes me cringe watching it but again that's couped up in the four walls again so I prefer to go out. I dot get how he doesn't feel that's wasting his life. I don't remember him ever being this bad before
    I asked him what he wanted to do on honeymoon and he said I dunno I dunno what there is but I don't like fish or heights...

    I'll do whatever he wants as long as I'm capable due to my back




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    • Becci93
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    And yeah he's been abroad with us a few times, the Canary islands and Florida last year which he moaned about tenfold




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    • Glitterfairy
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    Becci, ar we living with the same man?

    Saying that though, hubby has just washed up but only because my daughter is not here to do it. She's been doing it for months to build up money for Xmas shopping, so he's done literally nothing. Does not even offer to cook dinner at any point. Today I've done the housework, three loads of laundry, ironing, cooked a roast, what's he done? Took the boy to football, that's it.

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    • Becci93
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    We must be gf! It's a relief kts not just mine though!

    I just don't understand why anyone would want to sit in the house all th time and moan about going out and seeing people and places




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    • Glitterfairy
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    I'm hoping that in th new year he will start using his fit t to its full, he's getting so unfit, he will go down the stairs and come back and he's out of breath! He's on the verge of type 2 diabetes. He's going up and up in sizes, but instead of thinking right, let's do something about this, he just buys th next size up, it's worrying,

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    I've just cooked Sunday dinner, washed up, showered LO and tidied up. So tired today

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    • Becci93
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    That's scary gf, have you spoken to him about it?

    If be mortified if I had to buy the next size up I'd work by butt off to loose weight again




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    • MichelleC961
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    There must be some good in your OH becci , Im just yet to hear it :-) lol

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    • Becci93
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    Dunno what's wrong with him atm michelle. Sometimes wonder what's good about him myself at the minute.




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    • Becci93
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    He did get my drinks all night last night while we were watching xfactor iac and casualty ... Managed to get through a full bottle of rose ... Oops. So he can be nice!




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    • Mrs M Wade
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    LO just came up to me and said merry Christmas mummy

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Becci,he booked in for a well man clinic, I Wa at work, when I got home I asked if he went and he said nope. I'd already told him what they would say to him, 'you're overweight, you drink too much, you need to exercise more and you are at risk of diabetes'. That's why I got him the fit bit to see if that helps him. He is a builder but does not realise that to actually get fit he needs to do at least 30 mins of exercise where he increases his heart rate. He thinks that what he does is ok, I'm going to have to sit down with him and talk to him though soon, I know I've put on weight since I met him, I've put on lots as well but I am trying to keep it at no more.

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    • Glitterfairy
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    I'm showered and all ready for work, wish I had questioned it really seeing as I am actually on annual leave.

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    • Becci93
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    Ah, a lot of builders probably think because they do manual labour all day that they're ok. It's hard to help when they don't realise .. Like you say hopefully the fit but will start to change his habits.

    Hope you have a good shift gf... I hope you get well paid for working on your leave x




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    • Glitterfairy
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    Not really but I am doing a late on Saturday which they are putting down as extra. I thought I only had to do it as they were changing my hours to 30 a week from 18.75, and my holiday was based on the lower so would have to make it up to 30, I'm not getting paid 30 so really there is no need for me to go in, if I was planning on going somewhere I would say nope, but I may as well earn a little extra.

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Right I'm going to head off now and make sure I have everything ready. Hoping it will be a quiet night and we can stick I'm a celeb on in th day room

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    • Becci93
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    He's just come back and said he saw a homeless man in a doorway So he bought him a bottle of water and a Mar$ bar ... This is more like the person I knlw!




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    • Mrs M Wade
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    Aww that's lovely Becci

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    • Becci93
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    Restores some of my faith in him




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    • Elinor Claire
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    Becci I wonder if there's a bit of depression with your OH. Sometimes not wanting to do anything, or at least nothing new, can be a warning sign.

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    • Sarah D
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    Evening ladies

    Well I've had a busy day again, was at mums for Sunday dinner then got into a fight with my sister over my hen do, last thing I needed then h2b got involved and said I need to be less of a control freak, all I said was I want to know the basics but book what you want I've told you the kinda thing is like, but apparently I wasn't clear enough and I need to be involved in everything! So I got annoyed and then we argued, I was left upset and crying so annoyed with it all! So I've reiterated that I will need a day on who to invite and I want to know the date and if it's a stay over! Is that really asking too much still annoying me now that they made me feel so terrible! Isn't it my hen do

    Sorry for the rant xx

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    • Becci93
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    Possibly .. That would tie in with him being 'ill' a lot and toes in if he isn't performing at work like I suspect




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    • Becci93
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    That's not fair that your oh went against you too Sarah.

    I don't really care about date and people but we're a very close knit family so they know who I want and things but I'm really laid back about my hen




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    • Sarah D
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    Yeah I was so annoyed with him he has never done that! He has since apologised but he didn't need to call me a control freak! He said let them something for you don't have to have a say in everything! But I was more annoyed that is already said go ahead and book what you think is best then get my head bit off! So annoying but I've told my sister I want to hear no more unless it's what I've said I need to know, I need to tell her who to invite out of friends of mine I'd like there but she's not really close with or doesn't have a way to contact them she knows who to invite family wise xx

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    • Becci93
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    Sounds harsh to me! He probably just wants you to be able to relax and rely on someone else but there is more tactical ways of saying that without calling you a control freak!




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    • Sarah D
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    Agreed becci I no that's what he wants but yes could of worded it better lol I do call myself a control freak at times but still no need xx

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    • InDreamland
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    Can't understand why I can get on here on my phone but not on my tablet. Just keeps saying Can't get secure connection but fine on phone.

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    • InDreamland
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    Did lovely roast for dinner.

    Don't feel like work this week!

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