Wedding Forum - GENERAL CHINWAG THREAD w/c 27th July 2015 -...

If he doesn't leave and you do leave soon when you get something else, will you not have enough time for your mortgage? is it for your earnings being declared that your worried about? xx

Yeah that's the thing. I would only leave here if I was waking into another job but you need 3-6 months with the same company for the earnings.

We are hoping to get a new build so need to go see mortgage advisor asap. OH starts his new job Friday so will be booking 3 months from then. So November. The houses haven't started being built yet but will go very quickly so delays aren't a good thing for us at all..

Yeah we have. we went a few weeks afgo which is how we know they are getting snapped up.

There's one plot almost finished and fully sold and signed for. Another plot to be in by Christmas which is 80% signed for so they are going fast.

We will need to wait for OH anyway as he has been in UNI so not had much of a wage coming in from his part time job which wouldn't get us a mortgage. It's a shame they cant take your contracted salary for the mortgage...

Wow! I don't think its been that bad here! There's a few developments going up though so there's plenty to go around.

I couldn't imagine sleeping out to get a house! Unless houses were in so short supply...

There's a new development over the road from us. Apparently for every 1 house there are 7 people wanting it.

haha crazy.

Just called OH to see what he wants to do about going shopping so he has something for lunch tonight and he's not gone home yet! If he thinks I'm going to run around sorting him out when he cant be bothered to go home to get food out the freezer he can think again! Forgot I was going out tonight even though I've been super excited talking about it constantly... needs a kick in the head that one does!

I've had enough of today now, need home and my pjs! Got to walk the dog tonight as OH is going straight to his friend's house after work to cut his hair. He is getting married on Saturday so wants his wedding hair doing!

Yay home time in 10 mins.. being on my own in the office means I can pack up and then just sit here and wait when I cant be bothered to. I have had another really good day today though :)

Right off home now. have a good evening xx

I dozed, I got woke up by the youngest two bickering.

Laundry in, another load in the machine, checked the weather so I can leave it out over night. Hopefully it is correct and no rain.

Oh jeez, it's raining. Fortunately I only had two pAirs of shorts on the line finishing off drying.just hoe no more comes over

Afternoon all! Hope you're all having a great day.

Well, today feels like it's going on forever... and I got up late!

Been looking through local property listings at rentals - would like to be able to move after the wedding (or before if we could afford it) - and the odd sale listing (can always dream, right?)...

Started a new diet yesterday, got a bit of belly podge I'm hoping to lose and want to see what I can do in a couple of months before we go away in Sept as I don't know how well I'll be able to stick to the plan then.

Stopped raining now. Hopefully it was just a quick shower.

Waiting on hubby to come home, he was meant to leave work at 430 so should be back by now,

Ooooooo sounds interesting magpie.

That's why I was glad I found out about keto - I've calculated that my average shopping bill will rise by about 20-25% max as I'll be buying a lot more fresh produce and won't be able to bulk out a plate with pasta, chips, or rice. No bread, either, really: I'm gonna miss my wednesday panini and chips in the local cafe every week!

Also, I'm on a semi-vegetarian version as I can't eat red meat (makes me poorly), but I like salads, loads of different veggies, and fish/chicken, so I'm good there.

Well today went ok..... The man didn't really give much away to be honest. Both OH and I were a bag of nerves as we didn't know what to expect but he just asked basic questions regarding living arrangements, looked briefly at the house and said that he could see we have a high level of cleanliness etc. asked if he could run a social services check on my LO, which is fine though I will mention it to his dad out of courtesy.

All in all, we didn't get much from it.......however we have done our bit!!

He has to submit his report by the 9th Sept and OH did ask if he can see James at a supervised contact centre in the interim. I bet she refuses!! 817ch!!

Fingers crossed please ladies

Fingers crossed for you Emma that your OH gets the visits he deserves and yourself of course.

Hope your stepson is going to be ok Mrs R

LO is fast asleep with his wellies on bless him

Evening all.

Step son chose to go to the Indian we usually go to when we head out. Was lovely as usual.

Morning ladies

Slept better last night but still shattered. Not got much planned for today.

Have a good day all x

Morning all.

Quick hello, step son's birthday so we are all up early so he can have his gifts before myself and hubby go to work.

Morning ladies! was so sleepy last night I was in bed and out like a light

Not a good start to the day when im already hungry lol xx

Mrs R have you thought about getting an @nglec@re sound and movement alarm? I know there meant to be for babies but it comes with a mat that goes on the bed to detect movement it might help warn you when LO has a seizure through the night. I hope he's ok and the new specialist gives him the help he needs. One of the girls at work had a seizure on one of my first management shifts, honestly one of the most scary experiences of my life.
I CAN SEE BLUE SKY, I'm so excited, fingers crossed it sticks with us now!! Saying that I'm going to see if I can get LO a Trunk1 for cheep todayso won't really get to enjoy it much before work

Flossie, I hope he's OK. Its horrible that they cant tell us what's wrong! x

Mrs R at least your GP agrees with you and is sending him somewhere else. I hope he gets the help he needs xxx

Thanks ladies, fingers crossed he's fixed soon xx