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    • Glitterfairy
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    Got so much laundry to do today, not being here all weekend has made it pile up. Thank goodness the kids are not at school.

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Yeah you're right, they wouldn't know as all of his ID etc has his current name on. It was changed when he was about 7 so everything he has ever had has his current name on x

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Apart from his BC I am guessing? He will need to show that.

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I think I am just panicking lol! So we should be fine not taking anything? x

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    It says you only need to take BC if you don't have a valid passport, but he does x

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Ahhh well that's good then, just take that.

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Blooming Aunt Flo has made an appearance a day early. And it's hurting.

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    • Flossie
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    Yeah we don't need to show birth certificates either. Just passports and proof of address xx

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    • Flossie
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    I reckon you would be fine not taking anything. Worst that can happen if it's wrong is you have to go again, but you have time on your side! With everything being current I really think they'd be none the wiser xx

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    • Glitterfairy
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    I'd imagine you'd be fine with the documents you have.

    Just tucking in to an egg and bacon roll.

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Yeah I think I am just worrying for nothing haha! I am sure we will be fine as I have booked it in his current name, all of his documents will be in the same name and nothing suggests it has been changed! I'll stop worrying now haha x

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Yeah. Stop worrying,

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    • Flossie
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    All will be fine :)

    I'm just glad we have valid passports otherwise it would be a rain right in the bum! Would need our own birth certificates AND parent's birth certificates.. would be interesting trying to get hold of everyone's xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I know so glad we do too! OH didn't have a passport when we met so I'm glad we've been abroad since then! Excited to get the notice all sorted out but worried about what they will ask as OH is awful at remembering things lol x

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    • Glitterfairy
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    We never had to take our parents, wonder if it's a newer thing.

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    • Flossie
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    I think it's for people born over a certain year without a current passport. 1980-something? xx

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    • Sarah D
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    Mine expires this year and i didn't want to renew it until before we get married! do any of you ladies no how long before you get married you can renew it in your new name? xx

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    • Flossie
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    I don't think you can renew in your new name as such, doesn't it count as applying for a new passport? As far as I'm aware you can do it at any time xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I think you can do it at anytime as long as you get a letter from the registrar confirming your new name. Obviously you'll have to have it back in time for honeymoon so you'll need time for it to be changed x

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    • Sarah D
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    Yeah that's why i was going to change it before we got married I know it can be done with your new name but wasn't sure how soon before Ill need to find out how i go about it xx

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    • Flossie
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    I'm not even changing mine, it doesn't expire until 2019 so I don't see the point in paying for a new one when I'm still going to have 3 years left on it. Just going to travel in my maiden name which doesn't really bother me! xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Mine doesn't expire until 2024 lol! I am not changing it before the honeymoon but I think I will change it at some point before it expires, don't want to be travelling in my maiden name for another 9 years lol x

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    • Flossie
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    True, that is quite a long time haha. I doubt we will even do much travelling in the 3 years anyway! xx

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    • JennK
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    Mine expires next year but I was panicking about getting it renewed with new name before honeymoon so honeymoon is booked in maiden name which was a bit sad. But I travel for work and if i renewed with new name now it wouldn't be valid until the wedding day and I will need to go to Europe a couple of times between now and the wedding!

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I found it a bit sad booking our honeymoon in my maiden name too but it's an extra expense we just don't need and at least I'll know I'm married lol! x

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    • Flossie
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    It honestly didn't bother me! It might be different when we leave for honeymoon and my tickets are still in my maiden name, but you know you're married, it's just a piece of paper! xx

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    • Flossie
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    Soo hungry today, must be the exercise!!

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    • Sarah D
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    Me too but i don't have the exercise as a reason lol im just starving lol xx

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    • Flossie
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    I had a 3 egg omelette with spinach for breakfast which normally keeps me going well into lunch time but been hungry since about 10am today! Had a banana but not done much ha xx

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    • Sarah D
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    Im having an apple so hoping that helps me through to 12.30 for lunch lol xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    I've just called the registry office to put my mind at rest and he doesn't need anything apart from his current passport as it is in his current name! Phew!! x

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    • Flossie
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    At least you know for sure now Emma :) panic over! xx

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    • Flossie
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    OH's not got a day off this week so I'm having to pop to the bank for him to pay his wages in. Bit of a pain as it's right the other side of town, but got noting better to do in my lunch break I suppose!

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    At least it gets you out of the office for a bit! x

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    • Glitterfairy
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    Ahhh thanks flossie, that makes sense.

    Been out and got my car from work, popped into town and now about to hit the supermarket for the grocery shopping

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    • Flossie
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    Just got back from going to the bank, took me 45 mins in total. OH better appreciate it!

    OH has text me saying he's had a call from his mum telling him that he needs to keep his step dad informed with arrangements for the wedding.. ermmmm, why???

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    • Mrs M Wade
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    Just sat down to have some dinner whilst LO playing. Going to take him on a walk and maybe to the swings later

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    • Glitterfairy
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    I am pooped now. Grocery shopping done and packed away all whilst hubby sat on his behind,

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    • Flossie
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    I'm peeved about OH's step dad now. Apparently he wants to be informed with arrangements for the stag, which is fair enough, but there is nothing to even inform him of yet as the stag hasn't been arranged. He will be informed when there is something to inform him about! This is the second time it's come up that he feels left out, but both times it's come via MIL so I don't know if he really does feel left out or if it's more her trying to look out for him if you know what I mean as he is quite a shy and quiet person. Really don't understand why it's an issue at the moment though! Especially a big enough issue for MIL to phone OH about it whilst she knows he is at work as well?!

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    • Teresa
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    Hi all,
    i havnt been on for a couple pf weeks, ive been so busy, havnt had chance to get on, what have i missed anything important happen?
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    • Sarah D
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    Yeah its strange and sounds like maybe it is her trying to lookout for him, but you wont leave him out maybe you need to just tell her what you've just said xx

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    • Flossie
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    OH said to her that he will be informed when there is something to inform him about! He's a big boy, he can look out for himself and if he wants to know something I don't see why he can't just ask us himself... he has lived with OH since he was a little boy so it's not like he's a stranger or anything! Very odd. I can see there being a drama at some point about the fact he won't be in a matching suit too xx

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    • Flossie
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    Nice to see you Teresa! How is married life treating you?

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Got some good news at lunch time! Got a phone call from the manager of the recruitment agency I registered with on Wednesday to see if I am interested in a vacancy they have available for a trainee recruitment consultant. She said she knows I haven't got experience with it but her colleague who interviewed me the other day recommended me! So I am going in tomorrow at 4.45 for a chat/ interview!

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    • Flossie
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    Ooooh that's exciting Emma, good luck with your interview! Recruitment was always something I was half interested in and would have definitely considered it. Obviously will be room for growth and improvement as well going in at a trainee level which is always good! xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Thanks! Yeah she asked if I had ever considered it and I had as I have seen a few vacancies and was interested but never applied because I didn't have any experience! It's lovely that I was recommend though, given me a bit more confidence before going in and I have already met her too! Yeah there should be a lot more room for growth than there is here and hopefully a better salary! x

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    • Teresa
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    Hi Flossie,

    married life is good, ive been so busy since, waiting for it to all calm down, its just starting to! :)
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    • Sarah D
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    Great news Emma good luck for tomorrow!

    Xx

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    • MrsEmmaP
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    Thanks Sarah! Actually looking forward to it lol x

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    • Sarah D
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    Brilliant im sure you will ace it xx

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