From begin of our relationship ,I have a problem with my finance friend .Yesterday we met here to do a translation for us in the civil ceremony as his other friends can't translate Italian to English and she is not charging us .Was tough to me but I accepted and now I feel very stressed out with that and yesterday when we were having dinner she also said him not to wear traditional groom wear I want him to wear. I always feel I don't like her but I need to accept her as she is attending a wedding and helping us . Any hints how to accept this and go .Did anyone gone through such situation.Thanks.
CommentAuthorNicoleW665
Hi Asha,
I think the conversation needs to be between you and your fiance. Explain to him that whilst you know she is trying to be helpful you would appreciate that her input in the wedding was her generous offer as translater only and anything else is to be discussed between you and himself before anybody else.
When we met: August 2009
When we announced engagement: December 2015
When we will get married: September 2017
CommentAuthorAsha123
Thanks :)
CommentAuthorInDreamland
It's none of her business and she should keep her opinions to herself. Details of how the wedding will be should be for you and h2b only to decide. I agree with Nicole, speak to h2b and say whilst you appreciate her help with translation that is all the input you want from her and that you'd be grateful if he only discussed everything with you and not her.
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
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