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    • Asha123
      Posted: Nov 9th 2016
    Hi all,

    From begin of our relationship ,I have a problem with my finance friend .Yesterday we met here to do a translation for us in the civil ceremony as his other friends can't translate Italian to English and she is not charging us .Was tough to me but I accepted and now I feel very stressed out with that and yesterday when we were having dinner she also said him not to wear traditional groom wear I want him to wear. I always feel I don't like her but I need to accept her as she is attending a wedding and helping us . Any hints how to accept this and go .Did anyone gone through such situation.Thanks.
    • NicoleW665
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Nov 9th 2016
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    Hi Asha,

    I think the conversation needs to be between you and your fiance. Explain to him that whilst you know she is trying to be helpful you would appreciate that her input in the wedding was her generous offer as translater only and anything else is to be discussed between you and himself before anybody else.

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    • Asha123
      Posted: Nov 14th 2016
    Thanks :)
    • InDreamland
      Got married 7 years ago
      Posted: Nov 15th 2016
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    It's none of her business and she should keep her opinions to herself. Details of how the wedding will be should be for you and h2b only to decide. I agree with Nicole, speak to h2b and say whilst you appreciate her help with translation that is all the input you want from her and that you'd be grateful if he only discussed everything with you and not her.

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