Im getting so frustrated at the moment, i cant find any decorations in my chosen colour, my h2b car has packed in now have to use my wedding savings to pay for that 2 be fixed. i feel like this wedding is not going to happen at all!! ive got myself so wound up it dnt help when h2b keeps telling me that either it is not going to happen or if it does it is going to be a disaster. trying to plan everything on my own is hard work!! my bms dnt show any intrest wat so ever. sorry if iam rambalin lol really fed up. has any 1 else got so fed up you feel like just giving up or is it just me?????x
CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
Sorry to hear you are having such stress, I know how you feel, I am doing everything pretty much on my own, just get a nod every now and then from h2b if he likes something, lol. But we also had to cancel our wedding day twice, and this time, if it doesn't happen I will more than likely never go through this again! So I am buying as much as I can this time around, so that if things go awry financially then I will still have all that I need to get married, lol. It is frustrating when you can't find what you want, but I am sure there is someone who will come to your rescue with a site :) Have you had a chat with your BMs? They can be a bit like men, need a massive hint or kick up the yaris to get them to help. It is their job after all! Good luck. xx
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CommentAuthorpennieb-MrsRiley
If it's very difficult at the moment financially perhaps you could consider postponing? Or cutting back on the things that you want and restricting it to those things that you need. You say you have multiple BMs who aren't interested - perhaps you could pick just one (or maybe you already have) to be your MOH and explain to the rest that you can't afford to have them after all. There are a number of threads on here about saving money for the wedding, perhaps if you used some of those ideas it might help and you could still go ahead with your wedding. Good luck whatever your decision hun x
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