its teh disco lights that will hurt him most aint it???

yerh the disco lights will do him in!! i know what triggers him fhp he has several fits a day sometimes they only last a few minutes sometimes longer. i'm just worried about him in general :-( x

huh i comented hours ago on this but it didnt post weird.

i have considered that too and mentioned it to them but all u get off them is i'll/he'll be fine dont worry so now im a bit like well if i have them and something happens ill be devestated but if i dont have them then they will get annoyed at me for not havin them cause he has epilepsy :/ x

hopefully by time disco lights start he'll be at home drunk in bed or asleep on a back rest somewhere drunk lol x

i think i might not have them and just let him be annoyed at me xx

i contemplated like cornerin a part of but like so they can still see everything but the lights are not so bad flashin with liek a black sheet so its not too noticable but i dunt want him to feel uncomfortable he came over at xmas and the xmas lights made him have some fits including the ones outside in ppls windows when hed gone for a fag allthough it didnt help he says
"i was watching them they look ace" duh lol x

yerh i think im gunna have to get in touch with venue for djs number to speak to him about it xx i know lights can cause fits especially in my dad even looking at comp screen can so i need to sort this out now so im not natterin about it gunna ring venue monday get number and speak to dj xx

ask her what triggers her fits?? and if she knows when shes about to have one.my dad knows when hes goin to have one so lucky makes in to a chair to sit down or when hes at home a bed,during the ceromony she should be fine if she takes her meds main concern would be reception cause there is sooooooo much goin off, but find out her triggers,she could still be one but instead of walking in with the rest maybe go in a few mins before so she can get sat down before it starts or maybe sit at the bac so if she needs the air and for someone to take her outside, i would hate for my dad not to come id rather him come and fit than not be there cause hes worried about fitting x

first of all she needs to stop worryin about it cause the stress and worrry wont help her i think sit down and have a heart to heart with her tell her you dont want her worryin and u would love for her to be there on your day and that if u had to stop half way through the ceremony "if" she did have a fit then u would be glad to (if u would if not then obviousley use the tactical of well i dont want u stressin so if its gunna be easyier on u then lets just leave it for u to be a guest) hold the ceromony while someone sorted her out then u would carry on xx
but u defo need a 1 on 1 chat with her to help her feel more at ease, my dad has to walk me down the isle but i am fully willing and prepared to carry him if i have to down the isle lol x

good luck hun i hope she stops stressing long enough to calm down and to accept been one :-) if not then like u said at least you'll know and u can start dress hunting x